A Guide To Fingering - 2.

Taken From: www.clitical.com

Lubrication can go a long way to making fingering a more pleasurable experience for a women. There are a couple of ways you can help lubricate your partner, foreplay is the obvious one, stimulate her mind as well as her body. Talk to her, tell her how wonderful she makes you feel and how much you want to please her. Lubrication will probably come naturally but if not you could use your fingers.

Don't just shove you fingers inside her, try applying a little gentle clitoral stimulation first. Take your time and explore her folds and curve with your finger tips. Listen to her, talk to her and watch her reactions. You may want to ask her to use her hand to guide yours to the places and pressure that give her the most pleasure. Or you could take that a step further and ask her to show you how she masturbates herself. Watch and learn, take you time and the rewards will be great for both of you.

After some clitoral stimulation you might want to try it. Begin with one finger and if she enjoys this then try another. Many woman find one finger is not enough but two are just right. As always this depends on the women, because we are all different. Use your discretion here and listen to her, watch her body and her reactions. You should be able to tell a pleasurable moan from an uncomfortable one.

Most women don't find the in-out motion that pleasurable to be honest. A much better approach is try and find her G-spot. It's located at the top of her vagina, if she's aroused you will likely feel a rough spongy spot on the roof of her vaginal wall. Push on this and watch her reactions. Using a "come here" motion will probably send her into orbit. Again talk to her and watch her reactions, try applying different pressures until you find what she really enjoys. You may want to get fancy here and stimulate her clitoris with your thumb at the same time. This can be wonderful. Another option is to give her oral whilst using your fingers. This will also help to lubricate her.

Try and be consistent. Changing positions and exploring can be fun but it can also be frustrating for the women. When you find something that she obviously enjoys, keep doing it. Also don't forget that you have two hands and a mouth. Kiss her occasionally and use your hands. This all adds to the intimacy. The key here is to not be afraid to explore your partner or afraid to ask if they like what you are doing. Learn to watch her body, listen to her reactions and be prepared to just pleasure her.