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[Spitfire]

What do you guys think? I know often times in a relationship things will be going great with a person, and then all of a sudden a new guy shows up at school or you get a new job and meet a cute co-worker, and all of a sudden you find yourself second guessing your original relationship. What do you guys thing? Are crushes a normal and healthy part of a relationship? When does a crush become more than a crush? What makes a crush okay or not okay?

[Barbies are Evil]

I think every relationship goes through trials and tests, but a relationship that's meant to be can survive anything........I think crushes are just another trial, another test.

[FiZzBaW]

I pretty much agree with the above post. If you are in a serious relationship, a crush is most likely just like the whole "grass is greener on the other side" thing. You just see something new and think it will be better, but if you go to the "other side" or try that other person, you'll probably wish you stayed in your original relationship. I don't think you can say if crushes are ok or not, cause they will inevitably happen, what is ok or isn't ok is what you do because of the crush. It's all about your actions.....

-My thoughts
-FiZz

[FireflyPrincess]

I think that although crushes do happen you have to be careful on what you do about them. If the other person with whom you are in a relationship finds out about it, not only may this cause trouble, but it may lead them to believing they are inferior or not good enough for you.