) and he's told me more than a few times, sincerely, with emotion in his voice that he loves me. Well, Late September I finally called it quits, cause I had enough of the broken promises and him not following through on his word, and frankly lost hope that he KNEW how to have a relationship. .........then two nights ago he called, and apologized for everything, we had a wonderful convorsation, giggles and happiness, and then when we hung up, I felt really sad, cause I want nothing more than to be able to be with him, but I know I can't until/if he can prove to me that he knows how to follow through on his word, to HAVE a relationship. So in actuality, talking to him only depressed me, cause I remebered how happy he makes me when I DO talk to him. But not talking to him tears my heart in two too........I just...this guy has me all in knots and I don't know which way is up, and it kills inside.
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Posted 18 October 2009 - 08:01 PM
Ok, I possibly don't need as much advice as I do support on this.......So, I dated this guy about six years ago for four months, but he was never really around, so I got bored, plus, I was sixteen, what did I know about having a real relationship? ........Five years goes by, saw him like maybe about three times, but his face always lit up like it was Christmas, and i could still feel something in the way he hugged me.....so when we started talking again late 08, it kinda felt like we never really stopped dating. Next thing I knew, late February 09, we were dating again. We had amazing talks, but he always told me promises he never kept, stood me up so many times I lost count, but somehow along the way I fell in love with him (maybe i'm a sucker for punishment ) and he's told me more than a few times, sincerely, with emotion in his voice that he loves me. Well, Late September I finally called it quits, cause I had enough of the broken promises and him not following through on his word, and frankly lost hope that he KNEW how to have a relationship. .........then two nights ago he called, and apologized for everything, we had a wonderful convorsation, giggles and happiness, and then when we hung up, I felt really sad, cause I want nothing more than to be able to be with him, but I know I can't until/if he can prove to me that he knows how to follow through on his word, to HAVE a relationship. So in actuality, talking to him only depressed me, cause I remebered how happy he makes me when I DO talk to him. But not talking to him tears my heart in two too........I just...this guy has me all in knots and I don't know which way is up, and it kills inside.
) and he's told me more than a few times, sincerely, with emotion in his voice that he loves me. Well, Late September I finally called it quits, cause I had enough of the broken promises and him not following through on his word, and frankly lost hope that he KNEW how to have a relationship. .........then two nights ago he called, and apologized for everything, we had a wonderful convorsation, giggles and happiness, and then when we hung up, I felt really sad, cause I want nothing more than to be able to be with him, but I know I can't until/if he can prove to me that he knows how to follow through on his word, to HAVE a relationship. So in actuality, talking to him only depressed me, cause I remebered how happy he makes me when I DO talk to him. But not talking to him tears my heart in two too........I just...this guy has me all in knots and I don't know which way is up, and it kills inside.
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Posted 22 October 2009 - 11:41 AM
That does sound like it would be hard to deal with. An ex brings back many memories, some good and some bad. Seems like you DID have both with this guy, but maybe more bad since he was lacking the things you needed from him? Perhaps, you shouldn't talk to him at all until you feel that you are fully over him and can hold a conversation without feelings. Seems like you know what's best for you already, hon
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