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[CausticTears]

Hey everyone,
Do you believe you can love two people at once? Can you only be in love with one person and can you be in love with two people or more??


Personally, I think you are only able to be fully in love with one person and perhaps have a liking, crush, or attraction for someone else. But not be in love with two people. I don't think you are in love with a person, if you are in love with another. What do you guys think??

[Barbies are Evil]

Same, I believe you can be in love with someone but like someone else, but you can't be in love with two people at once.

[princess95]

i think u can just one more than the other

[DarkSoul]

I actually think you can. Maybe sometimes you love one person for certain personalities and another person for their's. I think it's also possible because you could be in a situation where you've think you've loved someone for so long that you actually made yourself feel that where at the same time someone else is nagging at your torn heart. So I agree with princess, even though I think it's unloyal to be in this type of relationship.

[Bekah]

I think that "Love" in itself can be shared with many people, such as friends, ect. But when it comes to a significant other, I think you can only truly love one person. You may have feelings for someone else, find someone else attractive or cute, but you can only be in love with one person.

[littleoldme]

Yes. from personal experience I can say most definitely.
When I loved two guys it was between a guy I've always known and loved and someone new coming into my life. It was love in each case and I found it impossible to compare them because they were so different, and impossible to separate them because I needed them both so much. It can definitely exist and it's not a nice experience. Maybe it depends on the person? I'm not sure.
I hope you can decide something quickly - staying in limbo between the two is the worst. Even if it's just deciding that you do in fact believe that you love both this is a positive step - give it time: time solves all problems right? :)good luck and enjoy all of the good, if somewhat rare, parts of being this filled up with love for those two - it's like no other feeling ever to be so torn yet so overwhelmingly happy when you are with one of them. stick through it and find an impartial person to talk to about it - that was my mistake! Love x