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[awitt]

Last Saturday, November 21, my boyfriend fingered me while I believe he had semen on his fingers. He didn't do it for very long, maybe a minute or two tops. I got my period on Monday the 23 and it was pretty normal. But today, Monday December 1, and for the past 2 days or so I have been having some abdominal cramps that feel very similar to period cramps and they tend to come and go. I've also had some slight lower back pain that also feels similar to period cramps. They pain isn't horrible or anything its just kinda dull pain. Maybe I'm just being extremely paranoid about every possible way to get pregnant but I just need some reassurance! Is it possible to be pregnant in my situation?

[CausticTears]

There isn't a high chance of pregnancy in your situation. Your aches and pains sound like they are just from the aches associated with the monthly period. If you are experiencing other pains outside of the norms, maybe then you should question if you are pregnant or not. Or just take a test after your period

[Cindy]

The chances of getting pregnant from being fingered is slim to none. There is a small chance since it only takes one sperm to make a baby, but there is a reason why men produce so many sperm to begin with. Our bodies are designed to fight things that do not belong in our bodies. So when a man ejaculates inside of a women, her body instantly start attacking the sperm, killing as many as they can.

So it's unlikely (not impossible just unlikely) that you are pregnant by such an act. Your mind is a very VERY strong part of your body and if you start to be paranoid about something too much your mind will start tricking yourself into believing things that aren't there.

I personally would not be concerned until your next period. If you skip that, then worry, but until them, don't worry about it. The chances are very slim (I just would never do it again if it was me).

[iHEAVENn]

I doubt that your pregnant..
You've already had your period.. so just relax, don't stress over what happened. And if you're still worried in a few weeks, then take a home test.

[awitt]

okay thanks guys that makes me feel a little better. but today i've been feeling periodically nauseous like in the morning i felt that way for a little and then again around 4 in the afternoon and then again just now at 1130. all only lasted for 10 minutes maybe and i didn't get sick but i still felt like i was going to. does that mean anything? i've also been kinda bloated from gas or something not quite sure haha but i'm just not sure if it's significant or not. tomorrow would mark 2 weeks since the incident so i don't know if that's too early to mean anything

[iHEAVENn]

You could feel sick for any number of reasons..
Heck I just recently found out women can get sick right before getting their periods.. Lovely huh?
You could also have a flu bug..
Wait a few more days then test if you're still worried

[Cindy]

If there is a bug going around, I will be able to avoid it no issue until I start my period. For some reason my immune system is so weak the day before and the day I start my period, I will get any bug that my body has hand no issue fighting off for the past month. It's really annoying to be cramping and bloating then add on coughing, stuffy nose, headaches, sore throats, ect. No wonder I'm a bitch that time of the month.