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[Livy101]

I have had the same best friend from the first day of kindergarden. We are different people but we just love eachother. She lives near me but goes to a different school. We hang out almost every weekend and our parents were allways pretty good friends and my parents really really trusted them. I went to the beach with them last week 20 hours away for 11 days. My friend has ADD and OCD and her little sister has anger problems I never knew where they got it from before.
On the whole week i felt horrible all the time because her dad would squeeze right under my butt/my butt every time i walked bye and nobody could see he would look at me weird. He touched my hips to show me how to miny golf/bowl and he always said i was his favorite of alll her friends. He grabbed my ankles in the pool and said creepy things and touched my hips and stuff the whole week. He would try to be alone with me and i always got out the situation, but i think he was gonna do something bad. When i got home i cried so much and told my sister because i realize hes been doing gross things like this the whole time ive known them sense i was a little kid. Im so oblivious wearing tanks and short shorts around him. I never wanted to admit it though and i feel disgusting and i have an unclear memory of him molesting me as a child. My mom is horrified. (my sister told her) ive talked to my parents and they never want me to see her but i love her sooooo much its not that simple.
Oh and two things i forgot to say:
* her mom was mean to me all week cuz she was jealous or something, is this my fault???
* in the car i was asleep on the way back and i woke up and the car was stopped we were getting gas and i was alone with her dad cuz everyone needed to pee but he sat next to me and was like wouldnt It be nice if it was just you and me back here, and he raised his eyebrow weird. And i was just like uh sure roomy but it was so awkward. And one time he was behind me in the car and was touching my hair.

Bye the way im 13 idk if i said that

[brillyx]

First and foremost, let me start by saying none of this is your fault. Her dad is a pedophile if he wants to have any intimacy with someone your age.

Secondly, if you want to still see your friend but are worried about her dad, then that is something you can call the police for. If he is trying to touch your inappropriately, you can send a report to your local police department and have them deal with it.


You have the better posistion here, even though it seems like everything is agaisnt you, you woulden't believe how easy it is to get a pedophile arrested.