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i've been experiencing some problems lately. i want to go see a conselour but i don't know how to bring it up. should i just go see my school conselour where your parents NEVER know about it or should i tell them? :(



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Turning over in interrupted slumber,

You ponder others, growing ever wakeful,

You've locked the vermin in the other bedroom,

To be so perfect causes you to feel so thankful,

Now find the fault because your boyfriend can't read,

Reflecting on to you is all the bitterness you need,

So unhappy, yet so preoccupied,

Never found beaten down with your forked tongue tied.



Your eulogy is like poetry,

But your mouth is like a magazine.



Queen dependency is cowering, please don't be confused,

You are vacant and submissive, receptive to abuse,

Virtue isn't tangible, and sense of self is dated,

Names constant on your cracked lips are now eviscerated,

Your spine is made of metal, Your veins are bound in electric tape,

And all along an impulse lights at random in your face,

Yough cought up an offering and forget which words are lies,

Then your skull echoes a singeing pop, as your brain is cauterized.

-"Mouth Like A Magazine" Showbread
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well whats the problem?? we could try to help first if you dont feel comfprtable going to the school counsuellor.... we cant really help you bring it up if we dont knwo what you are trying to tell her... sorry, but we can try our best, you might find ur answers right here. xx
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If you feel comfortable about talking about it with your parents, then that should be your first bet.



But if you think you'd rather go to your guidence councler first, it works the same way. Just remember, that school counclers have a lot of stuff to stay on top of.



You could ask her to recommend someone and then bring it up to your parents.



Sooner or later you're going to have to talk to your parents about it, so don't think you can go completely around it.
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The problem is that my VERY secret past has come back to haunt me (u can read about in the section rape/abuse. It's titled; Too late.) I'm not quite ready to tell my parents.
Turning over in interrupted slumber,

You ponder others, growing ever wakeful,

You've locked the vermin in the other bedroom,

To be so perfect causes you to feel so thankful,

Now find the fault because your boyfriend can't read,

Reflecting on to you is all the bitterness you need,

So unhappy, yet so preoccupied,

Never found beaten down with your forked tongue tied.



Your eulogy is like poetry,

But your mouth is like a magazine.



Queen dependency is cowering, please don't be confused,

You are vacant and submissive, receptive to abuse,

Virtue isn't tangible, and sense of self is dated,

Names constant on your cracked lips are now eviscerated,

Your spine is made of metal, Your veins are bound in electric tape,

And all along an impulse lights at random in your face,

Yough cought up an offering and forget which words are lies,

Then your skull echoes a singeing pop, as your brain is cauterized.

-"Mouth Like A Magazine" Showbread
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If you're not quiet ready to tell them EXACTLY what kind of problems you've been going through then just say that you've been having problems and that you think you should see a counsellor. You don't have to give them the details. Say just that. And I'm sure they'll want to help you. Once you're more comfortable talking about your problems.. then you should talk to your parents. They have a right to know. And I'm sure they'd rather hear it from you than from some stranger.
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with you wanting to talk to a counselor. In fact it's a very very good thing :) Your parents should only think higher of you if you tell them..everyone needs some professional help once in a while, don't feel any different. I go to a counselor...I hate it...but I go :P
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i think it'd be a big relief for you to talk to ur parents about it but u should definitely go to your school counselor so they can help u get thru the issue slowly and effectively. good luck.
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thanx
Turning over in interrupted slumber,

You ponder others, growing ever wakeful,

You've locked the vermin in the other bedroom,

To be so perfect causes you to feel so thankful,

Now find the fault because your boyfriend can't read,

Reflecting on to you is all the bitterness you need,

So unhappy, yet so preoccupied,

Never found beaten down with your forked tongue tied.



Your eulogy is like poetry,

But your mouth is like a magazine.



Queen dependency is cowering, please don't be confused,

You are vacant and submissive, receptive to abuse,

Virtue isn't tangible, and sense of self is dated,

Names constant on your cracked lips are now eviscerated,

Your spine is made of metal, Your veins are bound in electric tape,

And all along an impulse lights at random in your face,

Yough cought up an offering and forget which words are lies,

Then your skull echoes a singeing pop, as your brain is cauterized.

-"Mouth Like A Magazine" Showbread
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well is rape a REALLY big deal?
Turning over in interrupted slumber,

You ponder others, growing ever wakeful,

You've locked the vermin in the other bedroom,

To be so perfect causes you to feel so thankful,

Now find the fault because your boyfriend can't read,

Reflecting on to you is all the bitterness you need,

So unhappy, yet so preoccupied,

Never found beaten down with your forked tongue tied.



Your eulogy is like poetry,

But your mouth is like a magazine.



Queen dependency is cowering, please don't be confused,

You are vacant and submissive, receptive to abuse,

Virtue isn't tangible, and sense of self is dated,

Names constant on your cracked lips are now eviscerated,

Your spine is made of metal, Your veins are bound in electric tape,

And all along an impulse lights at random in your face,

Yough cought up an offering and forget which words are lies,

Then your skull echoes a singeing pop, as your brain is cauterized.

-"Mouth Like A Magazine" Showbread
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Do you want the sensible answer or the one where I bang your head against a wall?



YES IT IS A BIG DEAL!
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um..... *thinks for a minute* the banging my head against the wall option for 2000 dollars plz!!! :wallbash:
Turning over in interrupted slumber,

You ponder others, growing ever wakeful,

You've locked the vermin in the other bedroom,

To be so perfect causes you to feel so thankful,

Now find the fault because your boyfriend can't read,

Reflecting on to you is all the bitterness you need,

So unhappy, yet so preoccupied,

Never found beaten down with your forked tongue tied.



Your eulogy is like poetry,

But your mouth is like a magazine.



Queen dependency is cowering, please don't be confused,

You are vacant and submissive, receptive to abuse,

Virtue isn't tangible, and sense of self is dated,

Names constant on your cracked lips are now eviscerated,

Your spine is made of metal, Your veins are bound in electric tape,

And all along an impulse lights at random in your face,

Yough cought up an offering and forget which words are lies,

Then your skull echoes a singeing pop, as your brain is cauterized.

-"Mouth Like A Magazine" Showbread
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