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Aaaargh!

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So here it goes:

I have two classmates who are really annoying, because

they spend the whole day laughing at everybody for silly reasons...

Most of time, I think "bah, they're just bored", and I dont pay attention...but

I have to admitt they are actually very cruel and offensive when they pretend

they're only joking. I have a classmate that is very worried about her weight

and these 2 idiots cant stop making fun of her, and then they pretend they're

her friends. It makes me sick. And it's not only her, as I said, almost everybody

in my class has been their target at least once. Even so, nobody cares. PPl

just act like if that behaviour was normal or even funny.

And about me, well...I was new this year at school and they still haven't done

or said anything that made me feel good among them. Mostly the opposite.

And when the school was ending they started making fun of me as they did

with everyone else. I just ignored them...however, I can ignore, but not forget.



Yesterday, I was chatting and they started with their shit again. They started

laughing at me because of my boobs, because they think they are "too big". Hah. Its true

that I have big breast, but its perfectly normal. I know they were saying it

just to make me go angry, and they were succesful. I started remembering

how bad they treated ppl during the whole last year and i couldnt stop myself.

I just started saying everything i should have said last year, about their lack

of respect and stuff.

Then they just laughed more at me, asking if i was going to get revenge in

the name of the whole class like if i was a gangster or something (that also

was offending, because I'm the "typical" quiet girl that isn't even able to

raise her voice when speaking in class).

I fought back asking if they thought they had right to hurt ppl just because

ppl cant be as perfect as a movie character, and then told them they're not perfect

either...so better if they stopped callin ugly to everybody. (they r so dumb that

it seems that they're only attracted by looks).

and then one of them said:

"but what r u talking about, did ya know u r nothing to everybody?? Nobody at class

even considers u or thinks of you". Wow, that really hurt me!!! Because

I'm through a bad phase and i actually think that nobody cares about me...

So I just went mad, insane! I started being cruel, yeah, in their own style, and

finally blocked them.



And now I'm SO ANGRY!!! I cant stop thinking on them. I daydream a lot,

about fighting against them, giving 'em what they deserve! Hell, if i could,

i would just make a fist and hit their face so bad!!!! Dammit, I'm just like

waiting for the opportunity...they would never be suspicious about me cos I'm

that quiet girl, so i'd just approach the meanest one and break his nose!!

MUAHAHAHAHAHA!! I know i'd pay for that, but i dont care.

Before i came to this new school, there was a lot of ppl who sucked in my old

school that also hurt me too bad and made me be the stupid shy and twisted

girl I am now. So everybody has to pay for what has been done to me

and to a lot of ppl more! I want revenge! I want justice!! :furious:



How can I get revenge without losing my mind?

Anyway, if the opportunity comes and i feel that rush of killer anger i know

i'm able to feel, i wont think twice and i'll smash some faces.

This quiet girl is still in time to scare some assholes, I'm deadly sure.



(Oh well, sorry for such a long post...I just had to put the anger out of me)

(And again: any ideas to get revenge without gettin in serious trouble? And

please dont give me that of "ignore them" and "sticks and stones...". I want

to take action).
' In my dreams I was drowning my sorrows

but my sorrows they learned to swim '



"I've seen things you people wouldn't believe: attack ships on fire off the shoulder of Orion. I watched C-beams glitter in the dark near the Tannhauser gate. All those moments will be lost in time, like tears in the rain... Time to die."
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ok i wouldnt reccomend starting the fights with them because thatll only get you

in trouble. but try instead of hitting them try getting like a punching bag or get

like a duffel(sp) bag and fill it up with like old kinda flat pillows or just something

but not too hard so you wont hurt your hand but then when you get really angry

kick punch that all you want. i know when i get bullied i like to just start like

punching my pillow or something. also try screaming. i know how weird that may

sound but thats what i also do when im home alone and angry (i wouldnt

reccomend screaming when your not home alone your parents or legal

gaurdians might get angry) but also another thing i do is just write like a story

about being able to beat them up then shred it and throw it away and everytime

i get mad i write a new one also just flat out writing about how mad you are. but

those are just some things i do.



~sweet~



PS-also try listening to some music that relate to your mood
She's so big hearted

but not so remarkable

just an ordinary humble girl

expecting nothing as we may

to think it's a pretty person's worth

you are beautiful

and you'd better go show it

so go and look again

you gotta be true only if you really wanna go to the top and you really wanna win

don't believe in living normal

just to satisfy demand

Well, if you wanna get free

and if wanna get smart by the sake of your heart

you should own your lame and stand up tall

:)
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hey! sry that crap happened to you.... :P i tried ignoring stupid idiots like them... but i never stood up to them... :S wish i had now. but anyway: like SH said, punch somit soft: or listen 2 some music. just whatever you do, dont hit THEM. that wud just put u in deep trouble. have u tried telling sum 1 about these idiots? cos that MAY help... altho now many Admin/ teachers help nowadays.... and if u need to, jsut rant off in the Why Me! forum. it helps alot! ive done it... and now i look a that post and laugh at the idiots i wrote about. remember: even though they bully you, they are missing out in life of friends, and also will probably end up on the street.... not that we need more people on the street, but there you go.... :P just remember that, and dont try and do anything drastic (if u end up puinching them... just hope its outa school, and u hit him hard enuf for them to be dazed for a bit while you run like hell! not that i advise u 2 do that.)
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Hey sweethelp, thanks for your advice :)

I tried the "pillow-punching" thing once and it helps, yeah. Also screaming does...hehe. Oh, and that of writing a story sounds very interesting...I must try that too :P



Thanks you too, Silver...yeah, I'll think twice before doing anything crazy :P Besides, I know that violence cant help. In fact, it can make things go worse.

I'm not interested about telling someone: i know they would say "bah, that's childish" (and very childish indeed). moreover, it's my own business, I dont want anybody protecting me from them (... and can u imagine how humiliating would be having these 2 annoying guys all day laughing at me cos i asked a teacher to stop them???) (...yeah, I think I'll have to visit the Why Me! forum "a bit" this year...hmm).



I just want them to respect other ppl, to treat my classmates and me as we deserve,

not like shit. They must know they have no right to do that.

And I want to do it on my own. That's why I ask if someone here has an idea to put them back to their place. When I'm angry i only want revenge... but at this moment i'm calm and relaxed, and i know it's wrong to hurt them or make them pay. So how do I stop them without being unfair??
' In my dreams I was drowning my sorrows

but my sorrows they learned to swim '



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im sorry to say this but in my dealing with bullies in the past sometimes stopping

them isnt always the best way to go about things. i know how angry it makes you

feel because its happened to me. but i suggest ignoring them and try talking to the

other who get bullied and maybe all of you could stick up to them and kinda

overpower them this'll also help you make more friends since you said you are

the quiet shy girl and it might help you get out of your shell a little more. good luck

hope i helped

pm me and keep me updated.





~sweet~





by the way-your welcome :)
She's so big hearted

but not so remarkable

just an ordinary humble girl

expecting nothing as we may

to think it's a pretty person's worth

you are beautiful

and you'd better go show it

so go and look again

you gotta be true only if you really wanna go to the top and you really wanna win

don't believe in living normal

just to satisfy demand

Well, if you wanna get free

and if wanna get smart by the sake of your heart

you should own your lame and stand up tall

:)
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Heey, thank you again sweethelp!

You made me see things from another point of view, and that helped, yeah! :P



u know, it's SO DAMN hard to control feelings! :wallbash: My last chat with them was 2 days ago and i'm still angry as hell, but I'm gonna make myself think seriously about what you said! :rolleyes:

Anyway, my school here in Spain starts on Sept. 22nd...so I still have time to calm down and follow your advice :)

I'll keep u updated when something interesting happens :shifty:



Take care!
' In my dreams I was drowning my sorrows

but my sorrows they learned to swim '



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yea i know it is hard



good luck and let me know whats going on



glad i helped PM me anytime
She's so big hearted

but not so remarkable

just an ordinary humble girl

expecting nothing as we may

to think it's a pretty person's worth

you are beautiful

and you'd better go show it

so go and look again

you gotta be true only if you really wanna go to the top and you really wanna win

don't believe in living normal

just to satisfy demand

Well, if you wanna get free

and if wanna get smart by the sake of your heart

you should own your lame and stand up tall

:)
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:D glad u figured something out :P without starting a fight :D keep us posted if anything untoward happens :P
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:thumbsup:
' In my dreams I was drowning my sorrows

but my sorrows they learned to swim '



"I've seen things you people wouldn't believe: attack ships on fire off the shoulder of Orion. I watched C-beams glitter in the dark near the Tannhauser gate. All those moments will be lost in time, like tears in the rain... Time to die."
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