Sometimes I Feel Like I Can't Have Fun

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Sometimes I Feel Like I Can't Have Fun

Post by nate » Sat Sep 20, 2003 11:50 pm

today i went to a wedding with my girlfriend...it was her aunt's wedding. I didn't know anyone there except for her and her mom. Everybody started dancing.....and trying to get me to dance with them...and i couldn't. Dancing's never been my strongpoint, and i just felt like everybody was going to think i was an idiot. Afterwards, i felt like my girlfriend would hate me, but she definitely didn'g care. I just wish i could be more outgoing sometimes and not really care what i think about myself or what others think.....and then i think about my dad. My dad would never be caught dead dancing, at least i've never seen him do it. I start worrying that i'm turning out like him, and that is something i never ever want, at least none of the bad things. I need help.

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Post by nj100688 » Sun Sep 21, 2003 12:25 am

i don't know how you can be more outgoing because i'm not very outgoing myself most of the time. as for you thinking you're turning into you dad, i don't think you are. most guys hate dancing and would never be caught dead dancing unless their girlfriend/wife begged them to.



i guess for the outgoing thing you could try to stop thinking so much and just go on impluse. don't stop thinking completly tho because then bad things happen.
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Post by xJuliex » Sun Sep 21, 2003 5:00 pm

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Post by Kristina » Sun Sep 21, 2003 9:47 pm

I used to be that way too. It's so wierd, because I'm a cheerleader and I dance in front of people all the time, without a second thought, but at dances I would refuse to dance. Then one time i was just like fuck it, I'm going to have fun and just dance. So, I did, and I just realized that people aren't going to judge you like that... I'm serious everyone dances fucked up. That's just one example, but like Dustin said you just have to try.
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Re: Sometimes I Feel Like I Can't Have Fun

Post by Ben Himself » Thu Sep 25, 2003 11:03 pm

just get drunk first that will help u dance

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Post by pmfman » Thu Sep 25, 2003 11:52 pm

"we have troubles all around us, but we are not defeated" - Corinthians

"only two things are infinate, the universe and stupidity" - Albert Einstein

"People standing on escalators are a testimony to human lazyness" - Christ Novolestic

"Wanting to be someone else is a waste of the person you are" - Kurt Cobain

"Just because your paraniod it dosnt mean there not after you" - Kurt Cobain

"Peddle the ass that god gave you, buy nitrous" - Dave Ghrol

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