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Getting Picked On

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My boyfriend's been getting a lot of shit from these two seniors (he's a junior) because he "kisses our band director's ass". It's not that it's intentional for him, but the director really likes him and he's a hard worker so when he asks for something, it's done. So a bunch of people tell him he's kissing ass, jokingly. I've done it too, but I've never meant any harm and I apologize and stuff. But these seniors are getting seriously out of hand.



They make obscene gestures, kissy face and licking and last night they even got like half the band doing it. He's really, realy hurt by this. And it's been bothering him for a long time, apparently.



I've heard rumors that they're going to do something really bad to him at the band banquet (involving baby powder and lipstick). If it happens I'll try to rip out their throats because I don't think he can handle it. I don't think he should HAVE to handle it. He shouldn't have to put up with any of this.



Anyways, I'm on good terms with both of these senior guys and they hold a lot of power (plus they could beat me up) so just confronting them probably isn't a viable option. But I want them to know that they need to shut the hell up. Telling the band director will make it worse (think about it), but two band moms already found out. Maybe they'll do something on their own, I don't know.



I'm thinking next time they do it and once one of the seniors has everyone's attention I'm going to tell him to go shower for once in his life before he has a chance to humiliate anyone. He deserves it. And he needs to start showering anyways, so two birds with one stone.



Assholes, assholes, assholes.
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Re: Getting Picked On

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doesnt the band director notice this? if he doesnt, have a quiet word with him, try and get him to ask sum 1 else to do it...... instead of asking ur BF. either that or just ignore the insulent little (as a quote from you) 'assholes', they'l get their comupance l8r. :P hope this helps :P
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Maybe you should go with him to talk to the band teacher about being a little more quiet in a nice way... and if the teasing is still going on maybe you should take this to the princepal.
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