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Post by FallonCeceAda » Tue Nov 11, 2003 7:43 pm

hope this goes here My friend keeps having dreams of a guy kissing her, she wants them to stop, any suggestions?
I was talking to God, and I asked him

"God why don't you create a scientist who can find the cure for AIDS/HIV and Cancer? Why can't you send a leader to give world peace?"

You know what God said?

"I did, but you all killed them in the womb."



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Post by Toolrockgirl » Tue Nov 11, 2003 9:06 pm

hmm tell her to try drinking warm tea or something before bed and listen to a song she likes before she goes to sleep, maybe that will take her mind off the guy???



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Post by FallonCeceAda » Tue Nov 11, 2003 9:09 pm

P.S....is your friend a friend or a "friend"?
What do you mean by this? hard to answer if I don't know wut u mean :)
I was talking to God, and I asked him

"God why don't you create a scientist who can find the cure for AIDS/HIV and Cancer? Why can't you send a leader to give world peace?"

You know what God said?

"I did, but you all killed them in the womb."



I am a Army JROTC Cadet Private

I am 100% Pro-Life

I am Catholic

I am Drug Free

But most of all,

I am "Me"

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Post by SirPostAlot » Tue Nov 11, 2003 9:12 pm

Originally posted by FallonCeceAda@Nov 11 2003, 09:09 PM

[b]P.S....is your friend a friend or a "friend"?
What do you mean by this? hard to answer if I don't know wut u mean :)[/b]




what i ment by this was is your friend a friend or a "friend"

ya know how some people say my "friend" blah blah blah when the "friend" means themselves...it was kinda a joke...sorry, guess i was the only one thta got it :shy:

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Post by FallonCeceAda » Tue Nov 11, 2003 9:23 pm

lol, no my friend is not me LOL :shy: She tried you suggestion, and I told hewr, let it happen, and she slapped me, she wants it to, (she is his friend) but she's scared, she said that "If it happens and we go out, etc. etc. and it doesn't work out?" So yea, I want to help her SOOO much, but can't
I was talking to God, and I asked him

"God why don't you create a scientist who can find the cure for AIDS/HIV and Cancer? Why can't you send a leader to give world peace?"

You know what God said?

"I did, but you all killed them in the womb."



I am a Army JROTC Cadet Private

I am 100% Pro-Life

I am Catholic

I am Drug Free

But most of all,

I am "Me"

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Post by andi » Tue Nov 11, 2003 11:39 pm

dreams really arent something that you can control...just tell her to try to think of something else before she falls alseep... because there isnt really anything that you can do for them. sorry.



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Post by Daddys Girl » Wed Nov 12, 2003 7:49 pm

like everyone has said, you cant control dreams or really do anything about them or anything, but think about something else before bed, writing something down in a journal, or listening to music while she is in bed might help
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Post by Tristan » Thu Nov 27, 2003 5:09 am

Dreams tell of many things, sometimes of desires, sometimes of fears. Question is, how does your friend really feel about this guy? Does she desire a relationship with him, or does she fear that closeness, due to the possible end result? If she both has strong feelings for the guy, but is afraid to get too close to him with the risk of losing him as a friend, she should tell him how she feels about him, as well as her fear about it. This should calm her mind, and bring some peace back to her nights, for with it no longer making her worry, the dreams will either go away, or be more of a comfort factor than a source of anxiety. -Tristan

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