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Can't Find Myself

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i have looked and looked for who i really am. but i always end up following some1 elce's beat. i just can't seem 2 find myself. help. ::help::
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do something you want to do, something you like, just because you like it, not because its popular, or everyone else is...





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Everyone goes through this stage, all at different paces. Like me, I went through the normal dressing stage, then the sorta skanky dressing stage, then the gothic stage, then the freak stage, and now, finally, I have found myself, in the pit of modest preppyness!! Muahahahaha! lmfao



I hang out with all those who are like me, and have found themselves in the same place as me. I don't follow them, we flow together.



All it takes is some experimenting. And eventually when the time is right you will figure it out yourself. None of us can help you really, just tell you a little bit of what most likely will happen.



Hope I helped.
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i have looked and looked for who i really am. but i always end up following some1 elce's beat. i just can't seem 2 find myself. help.


Welcome to the wonderful world of teenage disillusionment. It'll pass, though.
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Originally posted by hailejade321@Nov 30 2003, 10:32 PM

do some thing you would do if there

was no one els to care or to fallow

find a new stile, get a new hair color

lissen to music that YOU like. finding

who you are is important and we all

know that it just moght take awhile

to find who you are or want to be but

be you if you be any one B)



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i tried that and now i am more lonely than ever....i tried to be myself but people just look at me like im weird and now people wont talk to me...i am being myself but i'm alone
~**~it kinda feels like im drownin in the Lords pain, until the sun comes out and shines again, smile, and give me reason to keep believin that everything ain't misleadin, and i kiss the clouds on them rainy days and smile for u when ya skys are gray babe, cuz im a tear drop away from cryin and a few shots away from dyin, dear Lord would u shower my pain~**~
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yep, know the feeling. Im a rock hippie and it just happens liz and becca and neil and anton think hippies are wierd and then say im not a real one cos i dont take drugs. then they leave me out anyway.



just be yourself, and if your friends hate u for it, find sum nu ones if your old friends dont accept u at all.
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hey

I had the same problem. Ok, how to put this.....

well, finding yourself is like finding a lost object. lets say...uhhh...your FAVORITE object, whatever it may be. It is EXTREMELY important to you. Well, you lost it, and dont know where it is. You have looked in all the obvious places, all the places you can think of, but cant find it. well, in order to find it, you have to think about yourself. Think about where you would have to put it and, no matter how weird or strange the place may seem, look there. You probably will find it where you never thought you would. (aka, the fridge lol). Well, same with yourself. Your looking in all the wrong places. dont look for yourself as in material things, such as clothes, jewelry, hair, whatever it may be, everyone has those things in common. You have to look INSIDE. you never really LOST yourself, you maybe forgot who you are. Look in your heart. it sounds corny, and like you have heard it a million times, but think about it. just take some time and get to know yourself. dont be afraid. dont be afraid to be different. :)

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Do things by yourself and see how much you enjoy them, that may help out in showing you where your true feelings are...with no one to conform your thinking.
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