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Fight Or Ignore Her?

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There is this girl at school...she is a year younger than me, but she is bigger than me.



I first met her last year when she was still in middle school. I was friends with her boyfriend and that got her really mad. He was standing next to me talking to me with my best friend who he is now dating. She came up and called us sluts and told us to stop hanging off her boyfriend. Yet we were standing like 3 or 4 feet away from him the whole time.



I didn't want to start shit with her so I just let it go but she keep saying things to us so finally I yelled at her back, I think I called her a dirty whore or something. I don't remember anymore...



But then this year we were fine. We didn't talk to each other or have anything to do with each other.



Then I started dating my boyfriend and she got to know him awhile after we were dating and she tried to get with him but he rejected her.



She found out I was dating him and she now hates me.



She gives me dirty looks and says a bunch of shit to me. She will spend a whole class period just staring at me.



I'm not going to run and tell a teacher because it would just make things worst, plus she has never touched me before so there would be no point telling on her or saying something to her.



So I guess all I can do is ignore her right?



Or should I go up to her and say something to her?



I don't want to make things worst...



I don't want to get into a fight with her because I know I can't take her.



She is bigger than me and I don't want to take my chances...



So what should I do...



Ignore her...or say something to her? :huh:
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I think you should just ignore her. Hopefully, when she sees what she is doing is no longer bothering you, she will get bored and stop. I once had a problem like this so I just ignored her and after a while she stopped cause she realized that I didn't care what she said. People like that only do stuff like that to get attention and get others upset. Hope that helps, good luck!
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i think you should just ignore her, because often times with bullies when they see that it doesn't bug you at all then they start to slowly back off.





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well, all i can say is that I can never turn down a good cat fight.
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Hmmm... Please if your going to post, post somthing thats actually helpful.



Beautiful: Ignore the little bitch, until she thorws the first punch, then kick her ass. She has no right to do what she is doing.



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Originally posted by Cindy@Mar 1 2004, 11:12 PM

Hmmm... Please if your going to post, post somthing thats actually helpful.



Beautiful: Ignore the little bitch, until she thorws the first punch, then kick her ass.? She has no right to do what she is doing.?



Good luck,

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Just what I would say!!!!





i don't know if this is how your school is, but where i went to high school you got a less sever punishment for slaping than you did for actuallty punching someone. that is if it happens and you are in school. that might be some useful information you never know. :wacko:



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Well I did the ignore thing for as long as I could...



But today we got into a fight in the middle of the hall. No one saw because it was when we were waiting for the bell to ring to go get on the buses, but the camera was right there so I don't know if I will get in trouble or not...



She came up to me in the hall when I was with my friends and called me a slut and I ignored her she keep saying things then she actually pushed me and knocked my book out of hand.



I was so pissed off at this time that I just flipped out.



I threw my bookbag on the floor and I pushed her back.



She punched me in the side of the face and then we just started punching each other over and over again until she backed away from me.



I grabbed my bookbag and said, "Stay the fuck away from my you bitch or you won't be walking away from the next fight"



And she just gave me a dirty look at walked away and I went and got on the bus.



I didn't want to fight her but I just couldn't take it anymore.



I just pray that I don't get in trouble. :wacko:
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Fighting is never a good solution to a problem... If anything, it will just cause you more problems. (You could get suspended from school if you're caught, you could get in big trouble with this girl's parents if they find out, you could get in trouble with YOUR parents if they find out, etc.) I would just ignore it.



However, if she hits you first, then you have the right to defend yourself... I don't know... Never been in that kinda situation.
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Originally posted by b e a u t i f u l@Mar 3 2004, 03:08 PM





I just pray that I don't get in trouble. :wacko:


Heh, you could have gotten her suspended if you just turtled, but that isnt the best strategy.



I doubt youll get in any trouble since they NEVER look over cameras, unless someone reports something.
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Nah...I didn't get in trouble



Until like 2 months from now they look at the camera and see us fighting...lol
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