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I love helping people! Thats what I want to do when I get older...is be a psychologist..
But then sometimes I just get so tired of everyone complaining all the time..
"Oh my life is so bad....blah blah".....because half the time there life isn't even that bad...
I just think about all the kids out there being beat, starved and almost killed...
And I am sitting here listening to my friend complain that her mom scratched her guitar like the world is ending..
I am not to type to some one and say something is wrong, people usual have to work it out of me..
I don't like to complain...and I try not too...
I feel bad when I get mad at people for complaining...but lately thats all it has been.....people complaining...
When something is wrong and people are complaining to me about their problems, I get even more annoyed because its like did you ever think maybe I have a problem?
I dunno...
I feel mean....I just can't take people complain to me alllll the time about stupid lil things when other people are going through so much more!
Am I being mean?
But then sometimes I just get so tired of everyone complaining all the time..
"Oh my life is so bad....blah blah".....because half the time there life isn't even that bad...
I just think about all the kids out there being beat, starved and almost killed...
And I am sitting here listening to my friend complain that her mom scratched her guitar like the world is ending..
I am not to type to some one and say something is wrong, people usual have to work it out of me..
I don't like to complain...and I try not too...
I feel bad when I get mad at people for complaining...but lately thats all it has been.....people complaining...
When something is wrong and people are complaining to me about their problems, I get even more annoyed because its like did you ever think maybe I have a problem?
I dunno...
I feel mean....I just can't take people complain to me alllll the time about stupid lil things when other people are going through so much more!
Am I being mean?
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Psycology is the study of how one deals with life. Usually this means complaining and not doing something about it.
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Just because someones problems might not be as bad as another persons doesn't mean that they aren't important. Maybe they havent learned how to deal with them like you have.
I think that even if it may sound petty to one person, it may mean alot to another. I hate when people say my problems are nothing because they maybe having a harder time in their eyes. Its not fair because you aren't that person and you shouldn't judge them on how little their problems may seem to you.
This wasn't meant to be mean towards you or anything, just my views.
I think that even if it may sound petty to one person, it may mean alot to another. I hate when people say my problems are nothing because they maybe having a harder time in their eyes. Its not fair because you aren't that person and you shouldn't judge them on how little their problems may seem to you.
This wasn't meant to be mean towards you or anything, just my views.
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I know what your saying my best friend will complain and bitch about things that I think are pointless.. but to her there a HUGE deal. It gets annoying sometimes but then again she doesn't really realise first hand what other people are going through. If something huge happened to her (and I don't want that to happen) but if it did then she would realise that the things she complains about are pointless. That happens with everyone though.. its just human nature to complain.
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everyone has a different view on whats bad. Usually it depends on what they been through, one person might have been through more, and thinks its no big deal, but to the person, its the biggest thing... Kinda hard, psycology, gets VERY confusing.....
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when i use to do peer mentoring at my high school, in the training we were told everybody's problems are important, whatever they are.however, it does get on my nerves when they moan like 'ohmigod, i broke a NAIL!' Apparently, i moan to much anyway buts it mostly over stuff about my mum...
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majorin in pshych too, u def gotta get use to complaints...have had 2 practice patients just observing a real psychologist, and thats all they do
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Like a few other people said if you plan on going into psychology then you definetly have to get use to complaining, because your job will be listening to people complain about their proplems and trying to help them figure things out. and you can't allow yourself to judge them based on your opinion of what you thing a "problem" is. Everyone is different and everyone copes with things in different ways. unfortinaly everyone has the right to complain, the rich the poor, the sane and the insane, everyone has problems.
and i don't think you are being mean i completly understand what you are saying. it does can get annoying. especially when you have had a long day and nothing seems to be going right.
and i don't think you are being mean i completly understand what you are saying. it does can get annoying. especially when you have had a long day and nothing seems to be going right.
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About what you said about some things being worse than others, that's why they have the different forums here. You can categorize if it's Rape/Abuse or General things like this, etc. So, if you want to help some people with little problems (like these General things here) or if you want to help someone with something big (like Suicide), then you can. You have that choice.
And I don't think you're being mean... We all have a limit to how much complaining we can take. And I know some of the things that I've put on here aren't "the end of the world tragedies" or anything, but I do need help with them. I agree with emotionalcutie... Just because someone's problems aren't as bad as someone else's doesn't mean that they aren't just as important.
And I don't think you're being mean... We all have a limit to how much complaining we can take. And I know some of the things that I've put on here aren't "the end of the world tragedies" or anything, but I do need help with them. I agree with emotionalcutie... Just because someone's problems aren't as bad as someone else's doesn't mean that they aren't just as important.
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Originally posted by silent_tears@Mar 12 2004, 11:52 AM
And I know some of the things that I've put on here aren't "the end of the world tragedies" or anything, but I do need help with them.
I double this, I have been a real pain in the ass lately, I'm going to try not to complain. I'm sorry if any things I posted about myself upsetted u 2 '
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I know everyone complains....I even complain sometimes....I just get tired of it lately...
Like my one friend...something is ALWAYS wrong...no matter what...something is wrong in her life...and she always comes to me for advice and I try the best I can to help her but she still complains after and it just drives me insane...
Plus I really hate when there is something wrong with me and everyone starts complain..
I dunno..just annoys me..
But I understand that I have to listen to people and help them..
Just sometimes gets under my skin when I am in a bad mood...
And don't worry Fallon...you haven't annoyed me!
Like my one friend...something is ALWAYS wrong...no matter what...something is wrong in her life...and she always comes to me for advice and I try the best I can to help her but she still complains after and it just drives me insane...
Plus I really hate when there is something wrong with me and everyone starts complain..
I dunno..just annoys me..
But I understand that I have to listen to people and help them..
Just sometimes gets under my skin when I am in a bad mood...
And don't worry Fallon...you haven't annoyed me!
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Well thats a good thing, but just the same, i'm going to try harder. Shoot, I was annoying myself, if that is even possible! LOL
I was talking to God, and I asked him
"God why don't you create a scientist who can find the cure for AIDS/HIV and Cancer? Why can't you send a leader to give world peace?"
You know what God said?
"I did, but you all killed them in the womb."
I am a Army JROTC Cadet Private
I am 100% Pro-Life
I am Catholic
I am Drug Free
But most of all,
I am "Me"
"God why don't you create a scientist who can find the cure for AIDS/HIV and Cancer? Why can't you send a leader to give world peace?"
You know what God said?
"I did, but you all killed them in the womb."
I am a Army JROTC Cadet Private
I am 100% Pro-Life
I am Catholic
I am Drug Free
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Complaining is such a harsh word. Peoples problems, no matter how big or small, if left to fester inside them, will eventually drive them mad. If people can express how they feel by "complaining" I think it's a good thing. For example, as far as I go, I don't complain enough, and it eats me alive. I have to hide everything. And it isn't pretty, so as regards em, I'm all for complaining. I just need to learn how to do it.
I know I would be pissed if someone scratched my guitar. My guitar cost ?600 and means the world to me. Just because her mum isn't beating her, doesn't mean she doesn't have a right to express her feelings on a situation. It's emotion, we feel feelings about everything. Those feelings need to be expressed, because we're all human. We can't walk around lifelessly not feeling anything. And anyway, do we have to wait until we're starving to death to complain a little?
I see where you're coming from. I get annoyed at people complaining about being stressed out all the time, and I know it's wrong, but I just grin and bear it.
I know I would be pissed if someone scratched my guitar. My guitar cost ?600 and means the world to me. Just because her mum isn't beating her, doesn't mean she doesn't have a right to express her feelings on a situation. It's emotion, we feel feelings about everything. Those feelings need to be expressed, because we're all human. We can't walk around lifelessly not feeling anything. And anyway, do we have to wait until we're starving to death to complain a little?
I see where you're coming from. I get annoyed at people complaining about being stressed out all the time, and I know it's wrong, but I just grin and bear it.
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i don't mean to be rude by any acount. but here is a place to my knowledge where people can reach out and rant and scream about their life problems. you think that its hard hearing about hte complaining try being the person who is complaining. and if you want to be in psychology then like sand said you gotta get used to hearing about peoples problems even when you don't want to hear their problems.
i think its great that you want to help people with their problems but you gotta get used to the complaining
i think its great that you want to help people with their problems but you gotta get used to the complaining
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I know everyone has a right to complain...
I'm just saying some people take it too far..
I don't mind when people complain a little...
But then they do it everyday and all day..
It just annoys me because I just think about all the people out there that have really horrible lifes...and then the people that have okay lifes that say they have horrible lives when they can't get a pair of new shoes..
When people complain around me I just try to help them the best I can...I don't yell at them or anything..
But in the back of my mind, I'm thinking that maybe they should look around and see what other peoples lives are like..
Like my really good friend complained for an hour straight that her dad wouldn't get her new shoes...and I was like, Well you just got new shoes last month...and there is nothing wrong with them...they still look new..and she was like, Well I don't care...I want different ones because thats what everyone else has and I reminded her that some kids can't buy shoes for like a year or so and she mumbled something about how she didn't care about what other people had..
Thats when I hate when people complain...
I'm just saying some people take it too far..
I don't mind when people complain a little...
But then they do it everyday and all day..
It just annoys me because I just think about all the people out there that have really horrible lifes...and then the people that have okay lifes that say they have horrible lives when they can't get a pair of new shoes..
When people complain around me I just try to help them the best I can...I don't yell at them or anything..
But in the back of my mind, I'm thinking that maybe they should look around and see what other peoples lives are like..
Like my really good friend complained for an hour straight that her dad wouldn't get her new shoes...and I was like, Well you just got new shoes last month...and there is nothing wrong with them...they still look new..and she was like, Well I don't care...I want different ones because thats what everyone else has and I reminded her that some kids can't buy shoes for like a year or so and she mumbled something about how she didn't care about what other people had..
Thats when I hate when people complain...
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i see how you feel that.
i can't stand that either the spoiled little rich kids that complain when daddy doesn't buy them the designer jeans for 300 that they wanted.
I think its very sad and when disgusting when peoples lives are so horrible that they complain everyday, and to us their complaining is daily events.
i can't stand that either the spoiled little rich kids that complain when daddy doesn't buy them the designer jeans for 300 that they wanted.
I think its very sad and when disgusting when peoples lives are so horrible that they complain everyday, and to us their complaining is daily events.
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Yea....that's the complaining that I hate..
Espically how she said she didn't care what other people had...
I think that's really mean
Espically how she said she didn't care what other people had...
I think that's really mean
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Yeah I think if the problem is something that's not material or that, like the problem b e a u t i f u l said, then it's a bit tiring.
like Mandaz said about knowing her problems are worse, I get pissed off when people say they are stressed out and I know its wrong, I'm just bitter because THEY wouldn't listen to me, and I am crippled everyday with stress.
like Mandaz said about knowing her problems are worse, I get pissed off when people say they are stressed out and I know its wrong, I'm just bitter because THEY wouldn't listen to me, and I am crippled everyday with stress.
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