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Bullies Exist After High School

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WELL,

My best friend's boyfriend is constantly picking on me. At first it was easy to ignore but now he does it all the time. He tries to tell me I'm dumb becasue of the universities we go to. It pisses me off but Ijust don't show it. BUt he always does it. And I don't wanna stop hanging out with my best friend just because of him. What do I do?
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Hey,



I think you should tell your best friend how it affects you. You should really sit down with him and her. Maybe he doesn't realise that he's doing it. Maybe he is. But just tell your best friend. If she truly cares for you, then something will be worked out.



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Tell your best friend, like sarcasticwrath says, and maybe she sort him out.
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Stop reacting to him. Bullies pride themselves on being able to raise attention.. don't bow to it.
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Originally posted by sarah@Mar 27 2004, 12:57 AM

WELL,

My best friend's boyfriend is constantly picking on me. At first it was easy to ignore but now he does it all the time. He tries to tell me I'm dumb becasue of the universities we go to. It pisses me off but Ijust don't show it. BUt he always does it. And I don't wanna stop hanging out with my best friend just because of him. What do I do?




Bullies exist all over the world, they are called assholes, and I think they are farming them or something because there is a shitload. the less you feed your fear to him the less pleasure he gets out of it and the less he will do it untill hopefully he gives up completely. Another fear of a bully is a "tattle tale", but there is nothing wrong with letting the police do your dirty work. All you have to do is prove he steped over the legal line one time and you can slap him with a fine, bullies like messing with people, but not enough to pay for it. Rock on.



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there are bullies all over the place it doesn't matter how old you are or where you are there will ALWAYS be bullies, you can be an old lady with a cane and still find bullies.



i say you should just talk to your friend and let her know how much it bugs you and maybe she can have her boyfriend back off.











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you gotta be true only if you really wanna go to the top and you really wanna win

don't believe in living normal

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Well, if you wanna get free

and if wanna get smart by the sake of your heart

you should own your lame and stand up tall

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