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I know that because of something that happened last Friday, there are going to be rumours about me being gay when I go back to school. For the whole story, go to the sexuality forum. Anyway, how do I combat those?



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Hun if you know you're not gay ignore them. Honestly why should it matter if you know it's not true? Just don't let it get to you because that's all people want it to do.
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My first three years of high school was horrible for this reason. People were complete assholes, calling me lesbian and whore and things like that and they didn't even know my sexual preference. I would attempt to verbally fight with them but that just seemed to fuel their desire to make my life a living hell.



Now when I started my senior year, these things were starting again but I did something different...I ignored them, just pretended like I didn't hear anything. And guess what? They stopped. I guess they just wanted me to react and when I didn't, they lost interest. I suggest you do the same if people start on you. Don't look at them and pretend like they're not there.



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Hmmmmm... my ex best friend and her family went around saying stuff like that about me a while back...

I have to agree that ignoring it is the best solution... you know it's not true and although it might be annoying that they may keep going on about it, it's all that really matters.

They'll get bored in the end :hug:

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really just try ignoring them and if someone asks you if you are gay just tell them the truth but dont start anything with them itll only make it worse.



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THANK YOU SO MUCH. I love you all. So far, I've been okay, but I intend to take the advice you have given me.



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Ignore them.



Personally, I've had rumors spread about me. Hahaha, they're true, but that's not the point.



I am who I am, and nothing can ever change that. If people start spreading rumors, it means that they have no life. Ignore them. Whether you're gay or not shouldn't matter.



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Rumors are rumors. They die fast. People get bored if you just let them have their fun for a little while. Don't egg them on. Just deal for a few days and all will be well.

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yeah, unless something keeps feuling the rumor it'll die out. Ignoring is seriously the best way. Believe it or not, there's currently a rumor at my school that for gel I use (get this) horse cum in my hair. And they're totally serious, it's not a joke or anything. That just goes to show you how stupid rumors are, eh?
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say "fuck you all" and just go about ur business, people will always talk , it's ur choice to decide if that's going to bother u or not
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In my first year at high school, people use to say how I was a lesbian lol, and this was spread about by this girl who went to my Girl Guides. :rolleyes: It upset me, particulary as I was getting bullied on a nearly regular basis-I would be tripped, shoved over, laughed at, called names etc. In a end I told a teacher. It did'nt stop it completely, but the rumours started to slacken off, so that in my 2nd year at high school, I was'nt bullied anymore. People love gossip even if it upsets someone else and its not true. Ignore them or if it really bothers you, tell a teacher.
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Honostly, I dont think that most people actually belive those gay rumors. I personally here them a lot, and I dont even pay attention to them any more becuase their are so many and most of them arent true. Just ignore them. Chances are that people will just try to make fun of you becuase they get a reaction out of it.
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that sounds a bit familiar. ppl can be retarded sometime. just act like its nothing, n if they do say something like that, say something like, 'me gay, yea right. i have a boyfriend thank u very much, n he's quite hot at that' then they'll know ur not gay.
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ignoring people is usually the best solution.
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