Hi Everyone!!
I hope you're OK.
Do I really look THAT horrible?!
Or is it just a case of not having a DIGITAL face?!
I don't think I'm a great looking guy - but I DO think that I look better - MUCH BETTER - in a regular photo than in a digital photo. In fact - I think I look horrible in digital.
Am I kidding myself?!
Do YOU look better - OR WORSE - in DIGITAL?!
GREAT BIG HUG
Craig!!
Am I really THAT horrible looking?!
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Am I really THAT horrible looking?!
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Who are you kidding? You look great! I've never seen you in a normal photo, but you do look good, seriosly. Why do you even think you look horrible?
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[quote name='Nikki;491565']Who are you kidding? You look great! I've never seen you in a normal photo, but you do look good, seriosly. Why do you even think you look horrible?[/quote]
Hi Nikki!!
I hope you're OK.
Thanks for taking the time to respond to my message.
I know that some people might think it's vain of me to ask people to see my photos - but it was a risk I have to take. [In my quest to become more realistic about what I really look like] I was bullied for the first 15 years or so of my life BECAUSE of my looks. I have always [As a result of that bullying] felt extremely insecure and have always wished that I looked like some other guy. ANY OTHER GUY!! [Well - as long as he was in shape and smaller than me] Because - well - IF I looked like some other guy - THEN I'd be worthy of love. It sounds sad because it IS sad. But I'm working my way through those ingrained thoughts and feelings - but it's not easy. But it sure does help when someone tells me that I am at least acceptable looking. I just have to start believing that and stop wishing that I looked like someone else. I desperately want and NEED to like the guy I see in the mirror. I want to feel good in my own skin.
GREAT BIG HUG
Craig!!
Hi Nikki!!
I hope you're OK.
Thanks for taking the time to respond to my message.
I know that some people might think it's vain of me to ask people to see my photos - but it was a risk I have to take. [In my quest to become more realistic about what I really look like] I was bullied for the first 15 years or so of my life BECAUSE of my looks. I have always [As a result of that bullying] felt extremely insecure and have always wished that I looked like some other guy. ANY OTHER GUY!! [Well - as long as he was in shape and smaller than me] Because - well - IF I looked like some other guy - THEN I'd be worthy of love. It sounds sad because it IS sad. But I'm working my way through those ingrained thoughts and feelings - but it's not easy. But it sure does help when someone tells me that I am at least acceptable looking. I just have to start believing that and stop wishing that I looked like someone else. I desperately want and NEED to like the guy I see in the mirror. I want to feel good in my own skin.
GREAT BIG HUG
Craig!!
"It takes FAR MORE COURAGE to be KIND than it does to be CRUEL!!"
Be sure to LIKE my Love The Bully Facebook Page!
Please visit 'Cambilar'! It's where you'll find my eBooks!
I am a 54 year old guy from Canada!!
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Re: Am I really THAT horrible looking?!
Hey, I see what you mean. Bullying does horribly takes away your self esteem, I've experienced that too, but much less I think. I hated being 11-15 because of that, coz kids can be mean and some were really mean to me. I'm glad to be an adult now, and I'm happy to communicate with adults, coz they're more understanding. How do you feel being a grown up? Does all that past bullying still bother you in present life? I don't have any advise for you, coz I'm not in quite the same situation and never was. But after all that bullying at school,when I got older, I said to myself -" If I don't love me, who will? A lot of people all around, but I'm the only one me, I'm my friend, the only true one." I know it doesn't always make much sense, and I know it's really not easy to fight all the insecurity. I hope you'll be ok, it's just a big work to do but you'll get through it and you will like that guy you are.
Take care! Big hugs!
Take care! Big hugs!
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Re: Am I really THAT horrible looking?!
I look better.... asleep hahaha.
Not sure about the camera thingie....
Though lately I'd have to say Digital just because the pictures taken lately have all been of my baby belly and it's just so cute haha.
As for you craig I think you look fine.
Not sure about the camera thingie....
Though lately I'd have to say Digital just because the pictures taken lately have all been of my baby belly and it's just so cute haha.
As for you craig I think you look fine.