Just Alil Too Old..

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:wub: ok.. theres this guy that im talkin to who i like so very much. i talk to him everynight and i see him more than i need to. i really like him and hes the first guy in a very long time to every say the things that he says. he tells me that he cant stop thinking about me and that he wants to be with me but he cant because its very illegal.. yea im 16 and hes 24.. but in 2 months ill be 17 so hes olnly about 7 1/2 years older. we havent done anything bc i wont let him and he wont let himself. i respect him for making that decision. but i think im falling in love with him i just dont know how to tell him that. i really want to be with him, i just dont want to get him in trouble. i think i love him.. but ive been hurt to much to truley know what love is. please help.. i dont know what to do.. :sadbye:
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well if u do love him u can wait about a year and it will be fine
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to go out isnt illigal as long as you dont have sex
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hey ive been in the same sit before.....but i think as long as he treats you the way you want to be treated then i dont see a problem with datin him ....
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I've been in that situation. Usually guys that old going out with girls your age is.... well usually they are just using you. (I'm not saying that this is your case, just be careful about that.) If you really love him, you can wait until you're 18, and by then you will know a little more about what he is looking for.
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I've been in that situation. Usually guys that old going out with girls your age is.... well usually they are just using you. (I'm not saying that this is your case, just be careful about that.) If you really love him, you can wait until you're 18, and by then you will know a little more about what he is looking for.
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you two can still be together without having sex. if you both truly care for eachother then it wont be an issue at all. try talking to him about your feelings and make sure he knows you want to be with him, exclusively.
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