So i'm in a really crappy situation. I used to want a boyfriend really bad, then I changed and it wasn't as high up on my list of priorities as it was. So as fate is such a dumba*s, it decided that not a boyfriend isn't as high up on priorities, it would give me 2 offers at once. Its not as if I don't want a boyfriend, just I dunno which one to choose. Will you help? thanx.
Luke : same school and year as me, not in my peer group, in my science and english group, he's a goth, OK looking, good sense of humour, a mate and is a possible.
then theres:
Paul : 19 in the same school but in 6th form (thats a brit thing americans.) in my peer group, he's a goth and a mate, not bad looking, cool sense of humour, not bad lookin is a possible
The thing is, I have pressure from my peer group to go out with paul, and even though I would prefer to go out with luke, I'm scared my mates could act differently towards me for turning him down. I dunno what to do. :luck: sorry i just like emoticons.
Help Me Decide!
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Re: Help Me Decide!
i think Luke sounds like the better guy, but u didnt give much of a description. dont worry bout ur peer group, if they dont like ur decision, they should still respect it otherwise they arent ur friends
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Well follow ur heart its ur descion right??? not ours it also ur relationship not ours??? Like I said the heart will take u many places ... when u hit a fork in the road u have 2 follow ur desicion... not directions some1 else gives u
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Something wispered- "SNOW"
Leaves were green and stirring
Berries,luster-glossed
But beneath the warm feathers
Something cautioned- "FROST"
All the sagging orchards
Steamed With amber spice
But each wild breast stiffened
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Re: Help Me Decide!
I couldn't say it better myself, but I'm still gonna try.Originally posted by Sky@Feb 18 2003, 12:55 PM
Well follow ur heart its ur descion right??? not ours it also ur relationship not ours??? Like I said the heart will take u many places ... when u hit a fork in the road u have 2 follow ur desicion... not directions some1 else gives u
Don't listen to whatever anyone else thinks. Your life, your decision, you need to decide. If you make the wrong decision, what can you? Blame your peer group? No, you will blame yourself. Don't listen to others, make the decision from the heart.
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