Is This A Turn Off For You Girls....

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I think its kinda sexy when a guy has a little bit of chunk to hold on too hehe...it reminds me of a big cuddley teddy bear....but I also like guys that have a little muscle in them....I like whats on the inside its what counts the most ;) :D
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I could really care less since I don't know you anyway.
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It really depends on the girl. Girls as a whole, do not share a universal opinion. People really hafta start understanding that...and of course it works vice versa.




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i couldnt care less. why am i goign tow orry about how someone looks? the person i am with for the rest of my life will change how the look. they will age and go gray/bald. but thats not what im falling in love with. im falling in love with them on the inside. physical features change.
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muscles over fat is sorta those cherry on top things, for girls - a guy's personal appearance is a first thing she notices (same for a guy), but eventually the personality comes through. my suggestion, is u work out, itll make u feel better and more confident. Confidence (too a point) is really sexy for girls, showing confidence even if u have fat shows that ur not afraid of who u are and girls will really appreciate that. like i have some fat in the chest area (not as much - i had bigger boobies than u do now its mostly muscle), and i have a flat stomach but no abs (yea its a keg), but i get girls a lot because im energetic and confident about who i am. personality always makes a person look better, unless ur a horrible person. go out there and shine, ull feel better, look better, and have better chances at love.
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My boyfriend is skinny but is in the Army and has to work out at lot so he is kinda mus. I think what matters in personality not looks!
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I usually go for guys who are kinda skinny with muscles...but it wouldn't matter if they had a little fat on them. I just dont like really big muscular guys who work out too much..
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guys are all different and it depends on the person that you're trying to impress (even thought you shouldn't be trying to impress anyone but yourself) but a guy with a little pudge on him is soooo sexy!!! no matter what anyone says they are people just are too insecure to say that most of the time
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It's been my experience that guys who are a lil' chubby give the best hugs. You just can't hug skinny guys the same way. Too damn scrawny I think. ;) As long as you are happy, healthy, and have confidence in yourself, those are the big important things.
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i love a guy with some meat cause when you lay with them or when hes holding you you feel just so safe and wonderful my bf is skinny and i wish hed gain some weight :shifty:
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Well To Me, ur body image doesn't really matter it's what inside that really counts, yeah my baby is kinda plump but i think it makes him so damn cute! :P i really don't like skinny guys, i say if my guy is plump thas juss more to luv!







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I totally dont care. Ive had crushes that range from skinny pole guys to guys that have meat on em. I dont want someone obese, I'd like a healthy guy.
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Personally, i want a guy who isn't skinnier than me, i think the bigger ones (muscular or not) would be much better to cuddle up to, bigger people are just like big plush teddy bears, so fun to cuddle up with. lol
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Personally, i want a guy who isn't skinnier than me, i think the bigger ones (muscular or not) would be much better to cuddle up to, bigger people are just like big plush teddy bears, so fun to cuddle up with. lol
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my boyfriend has meat on him, and i really dont mind it too much. :D i actually would prefer someone bigger than a skrawny guy, cuz.like everuone has been saying, its like a big ol' teddy bear. :D :wub:
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