That Perfect Guy That No One Can Compare Too
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- hardway_is_betterway
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That Perfect Guy That No One Can Compare Too
This is long but kinda interesting so read it if you'd like.
He was 16 and I was 14, he was a junior and I was a freshman
We were both virgins and everything. We went out for 9 months and did everything together. We broke up just because we held the little things that got to us inside and everything exploded. 2 weeks later he went out with a girl who is known for her slutty ways, he went out with her for about 2 months and they ended up sleeping together.. He admitted that his feelings he had for me had fallen on her and he shouldnt have done that. So he calls me up but Im away at vacay.. when I get back I call him. He told me that he wanted to talk to me and she wouldnt let him.. when hed try shed get all psycho.. and when they broke up she tried to kill herself.. She has other problems... but ne ways... So we get close and everything is like old time and 2 days before school we end up sleeping together... things were weird and we didnt talk... then out of the blue he likes a girl from a town close by and dates her... we dont talk... and then a month down the rode during fall play we start talking again and become best of friends... but hes treating his gf like he did his last.. like shit... not like he treated me... itslike after me he just doesnt care ne more... well ne ways they sleep together sometime in the 2 and a half months and of course I still love him... he calls me up and wants to hang out and be friends... we decide we r gonna do stuff... and i told him that i didnt want my heart broken.... he said look im not lookin for a gf cuz im going to college and i dont want to go through with that... im like r u gonna sleep with all sorts of random girls then... cuz youve changed... hes like no i just want to be with u... so we end up doing it 3 times... I KNOW THAT WAS STUPID ON MY PART.... but ne ways.... that was last tuesday the last time we were together... on Wed at school he was all kewl and hanging with me and by friday he started 'seeing' a freshman girl who is kinda skanky.... but its like that old guy that everyone loves is throwing his life away... He was this caring sweet guy who was abused by his alcoholic mom all his life... that didnt want that for ne one else... and now hes this guy who just acts like hes worthless and has nothing..... i still care for him... but i decided to try and go out with this other guy who is such good friends with me.... but i still think about my ex and i know i still love him...... i know i deserve better than how he treated me.... but i still love that guy thas deep inside of him... the guy that went away the day we ended..... do you think he still cares or will ever realize???
He was 16 and I was 14, he was a junior and I was a freshman
We were both virgins and everything. We went out for 9 months and did everything together. We broke up just because we held the little things that got to us inside and everything exploded. 2 weeks later he went out with a girl who is known for her slutty ways, he went out with her for about 2 months and they ended up sleeping together.. He admitted that his feelings he had for me had fallen on her and he shouldnt have done that. So he calls me up but Im away at vacay.. when I get back I call him. He told me that he wanted to talk to me and she wouldnt let him.. when hed try shed get all psycho.. and when they broke up she tried to kill herself.. She has other problems... but ne ways... So we get close and everything is like old time and 2 days before school we end up sleeping together... things were weird and we didnt talk... then out of the blue he likes a girl from a town close by and dates her... we dont talk... and then a month down the rode during fall play we start talking again and become best of friends... but hes treating his gf like he did his last.. like shit... not like he treated me... itslike after me he just doesnt care ne more... well ne ways they sleep together sometime in the 2 and a half months and of course I still love him... he calls me up and wants to hang out and be friends... we decide we r gonna do stuff... and i told him that i didnt want my heart broken.... he said look im not lookin for a gf cuz im going to college and i dont want to go through with that... im like r u gonna sleep with all sorts of random girls then... cuz youve changed... hes like no i just want to be with u... so we end up doing it 3 times... I KNOW THAT WAS STUPID ON MY PART.... but ne ways.... that was last tuesday the last time we were together... on Wed at school he was all kewl and hanging with me and by friday he started 'seeing' a freshman girl who is kinda skanky.... but its like that old guy that everyone loves is throwing his life away... He was this caring sweet guy who was abused by his alcoholic mom all his life... that didnt want that for ne one else... and now hes this guy who just acts like hes worthless and has nothing..... i still care for him... but i decided to try and go out with this other guy who is such good friends with me.... but i still think about my ex and i know i still love him...... i know i deserve better than how he treated me.... but i still love that guy thas deep inside of him... the guy that went away the day we ended..... do you think he still cares or will ever realize???
You may want to run away, but ur feelings never leave you... You may want to die.... but your thoughts always protect you......Most of all you may want answers..... but you will never stop asking..... There is something out there...... you just dont know what.... and i guess that's life
- xolilsk8rchicaxo
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Re: That Perfect Guy That No One Can Compare Too
thats tough because no one can really tell you if he cares or not. because his actions could mean lots of different things. maybe try talking to him and telling him all this that you just said here. i mean if he cleaned up his act would you want him back? does he want you back? sit down and have a real heart-to-heart with him. and if he seems like he is just throwing his life away then move on. i mean you cant help him unless he wnts to be helped and if he refuses your help youre jsut going to get more hurt if you sit by and watch.
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A reason for all that I do
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To change who I used to be
A reason to start over new
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- hardway_is_betterway
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It is tough and thanx for taking the time to read my story.. I dont know if a heart to hear would help me... i think if we started talking again itd make me fall for him even harder.... but honestly how can u just turn ur head from someone u care so much about?
You may want to run away, but ur feelings never leave you... You may want to die.... but your thoughts always protect you......Most of all you may want answers..... but you will never stop asking..... There is something out there...... you just dont know what.... and i guess that's life
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sometimes the toughest thing let go of are the best things to let go of. if you dont let go now youll never let go, youll lust get keep getting your heart broken over and over and over etc. let go hell relize what he lost, or maybe not. but do whats best for you
- hardway_is_betterway
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i dont think he'll ever realize... and he needs to learn.... and so do i..... unfortunately i guess im gonna have to do it the hard way... and i dont think i have the strength to do so
You may want to run away, but ur feelings never leave you... You may want to die.... but your thoughts always protect you......Most of all you may want answers..... but you will never stop asking..... There is something out there...... you just dont know what.... and i guess that's life
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um it seems to me like he uses you for what is called the "booty call" he knows you love him and that youll do it and that there isnt any one else at the moment and really it doesnt sound like you are trying to ask us because it seems you already know the answer and you are tryin to convince yourself not us. hon just drop the guy before you end up like preggie or somethin -MARY
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- xolilsk8rchicaxo
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sometimes you have to just stop thinking with your heart and turn your head the other way. think with your head and you know that you are better than him and can do better than him. and all youre going to get from him (right now at least) is heartache. and whats a worse feeling...slowly getting over him in your own time day by day, or still pining over him and having him not treat you the way he should? put some thought into it and if you think you can handle "turning your head" then try. dont let him have complete control over you.
I've found a reason for me
To change who I used to be
A reason to start over new
and the reason is you
I've found a reason to show
A side of me you didn't know
A reason for all that I do
And the reason is you
To change who I used to be
A reason to start over new
and the reason is you
I've found a reason to show
A side of me you didn't know
A reason for all that I do
And the reason is you
- hardway_is_betterway
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be proud of me... i talked to him.... i told him this.... ' im not gonna pretend that its all ok, and im not gonna pretend im not hurt, but i am gonna always and forever be there for you as a friend... and if someday we end up together down the road... i hope u will have fallen and fallen hard and had to get back up on ur own and learned.. because all this new person does is hurt everyone else... most of all your hurting yourself.... it will be a long time or maybe never before i look u in the eyes again... he asked me to call him like yesterday?? and i said no i said i cant do this ne more... i can be there if u need help like a shoulder to cry on or someone to have listen to u but i cant call u ne more i cant put my heart on the line... im like i dont know where that guy went that everyone loved.... but since hes gone a piece of me is dead too... and hes like wait wait im like no good bye.. and hung up
You may want to run away, but ur feelings never leave you... You may want to die.... but your thoughts always protect you......Most of all you may want answers..... but you will never stop asking..... There is something out there...... you just dont know what.... and i guess that's life
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i think your talk really caught his attion and good luck
we are offered many paths in our lifes that can lead us sometimes to happyness .....but to get there, we must go not stand and wait for someone to take it for us.
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