This Girl...

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This Girl...

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Alrighty! there's this girl i like, lets call her Jane (thats not her real name, lol), and i like her, kinda...we're friends, but we dont talk much, cuz we dont have the time,but when we do, we chat for a while....

i like her, and i thought hse liked me at one point in time, so i told my other friend , who is one of Jane's best friends, that i liked jane...she said "you really aren't her type..she goes for older guys" (ouch.)

i kinda passed it by, thinking, "yeah, shes prolly right, a relationship more than friends between us wont work...."

then i remembered her in my class last year, always chatting w/ me...and doing the things girls do when they like a guy...

and i thought "maybe she does like me"

....and, heres an odd twist....

the ohter day, she asked me to be in a movie with her, for a class....but she didnt ask her best friend (the one i told about liking Jane)...

its kinda confusing me, what do you think Jane means...does she like me? or just maybe wanna become closer friends? or is there not enough info to know? :blink: oy...

i'll quit ranting now...thanks :)
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Either way, looks good for you ;) Just go with it, see what happens... good luck!
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thank you...

i hope it goes to the good way... :D
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Well, if she wants to become closer friends that means she's interested in you on some level, you know? And that can always lead to more.
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:D yeh, thats what im aiming for...

im debaiting on wheter or not its that she wants to get closer or just that she knows i like to act...

well, my part is very minute though...so maybe she does want to get closer...hmmmm
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well, i thought about it, i think she does wanna get closer....

my part is small, but ill be there for the whole filming, and, a while ago she invited me to a party, and gave me a valentine (not in the love way)

so :woot:
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thanks...

what could i do/say to kinda find out if she likes me, and if she does, get closer?
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Just keep showing interest, call her sometimes, flirt, you know, ask her over (maybe ask her to bring a friend or two and you'll have some of your friends and you guys can watch a movie or something, if you want to be more subtle about it)... I dunno. Keep talking to her and just dropping some subtle hints and hopefully things'll work out well. :) Best of luck!
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sigh, with that last post i feel desperate....

i'm just gonna get to know her (or try to) then weigh my possibilites, i'll keep ya posted, if ya want
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well Jane couldve meant nothing by the movie or anything... the possibilities are endless! But if ya really llike her dont be scared to make the first move... and if it doesnt work out... atleast you know you tried!





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Firstly, ask her friends what they think. Yes, I know it will get back to her that you asked, but that will only signal that you are curious as to her intentions. If you really want to know, you can also try looking for more signals, and posting them here as they come up. Good luck, and if she does like you, I hope things work out.
yeah, as you can see I asked my friend....well......that's the only one of Jane's friends I speak with..

I don't think I've ever mentioned that I was crazy bout one of her friends...then she broke meh heart (its over and done with) and that girl is one of the biggest bitches (pardon my language) i have ever met...so i know ill be getting flamed from that side....hmm...maybe i should move onto someone else...i dunno... (sigh)

thanks for your support though!
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we havent ever hung out...but i realized something goood!

Tomorrow there's a field trip to go see "Gods and Generals" for 3 history classes, mine, hers and some other one (Who cares 'bout that one?)...so I'm hopin to sit w/ her and chat... :D hehehe
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well, today's the day,i hope i can sit with her...I'll keep ya posted on what happens...i hope the suspense isnt too much....(for you) and i'll tell yeh how the movie is lol.

I have a feeling she knows, because the friend i told prolly said something...but i guess i wasnt the first guy to like her and tell my friend. oof. but, i'm hopin for a positive turn out...i'll just be myself, and be happy! :D
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NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! (sighs) I didn't sit with her...she got to the theater before me...I thought I'd be sittin w/ her cuz I'm sittin w/ some friends she hangs out with (I know some of em)

OH! But "Gods and Generals" was pretty good, a little on the long side though....bout 3.5+hours...it has an intermission...

it was good, but I had a constant stream of popcorn coming at the back of my head...from my friend, whom i was once crazy bout...my friend said it means she wants me to go sit with her...but its good i didn't....(sigh) onto more new ideas...
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yay! :D i talked to her for a while...while th was down....im happy... :D ...i got to know her a little more...sorta...shes really....out there.... :blink: lol

ill keep you posted, if you'd like...
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