My Beloved Boy Friend

[DyingDream]

ok, ive been with my boy friend a little over seven months, hes great in almost every way, with the "minor" acception of his flirting...he seems very fond of boobs, and while i know hes not cheating, it bothers me when he takes pictures of our (girl) friends without their shirts. we have talked about it before but he thinks im over reacting, and that hes not doing anything wrong. i dont know if im just jealous or if i have a valid reason for being upset, and if so, what do i do? ive tried to be nice about it all, but all he does is tell me it shouldnt bother me, and he loves me, but if that were true, why would he need those pictures? any help would be appreciated. thanks

[windwalker2089]

totally normal by guy's standards (lol) but i would tell him to stop, looking at girls boobs is one thing (hey, guys just cant help it), but taking pictures is another

[b e a u t i f u l]

Go take a picture of your guys friend's dick....



See what HE has to say about that!

[windwalker2089]

^she did a way better explanation

[b e a u t i f u l]

Me?



Thanks..



I was just thinking, that you should take pictures of your friends dick and see how much he likes it, then you can be like, "well you take pictures of my friends boobs, so I wanted a picture of my friends dick....nothing wrong in that, now is there?" and he will most likely get upset because most guys are like that...

[windwalker2089]

this is true, most guys think about themselves, and get pissed when YOU do something wrong, but think they are justified to do something just because they wanted to for themselves

[b e a u t i f u l]

Yep...



Beat him at his own game

[DyingDream]

that could be rather funny, but somehow i think that might result in a different outcome than im looking for...i dont want to end the relationship, and i could see that happening.

[b e a u t i f u l]

Ah...my mistake...



Okay, well instead of actually taking a picture of your friends dick....just sit down with your boyfriend and be like, "Hunny, how would you feel if I went around taking pictures of other guys dicks, wouldn't it upset you?"

[DyingDream]

lol, i think i can manage that one.

[b e a u t i f u l]

Good luck!



Oh...and hun, just wondering, why would you want to date someone who wants pictures of other girls boobs.



What's wrong with your boobs...I mean...it's mean to go around taking pictures of other girls boobs, when he has you...

[DyingDream]

hes the best boy friend ive ever had, i guess its because i really love him, and weve been through too much to break up over somethign as superficial as this...plus its probably more of my issue than it is his.