I Know People Think Its Wrong

[lil_blonde_chic14]

i konw i havent been on in a while but i have a question to ask and no where else to turn ok well i was adopted and 3 weeks ago last saturday i met some of my siblings (blood) and all well theres one named heather whose 18 and she is just amazing we have hung out almost everyday since we met well april 10th we went to see my dads family and she went with us and my ex bestfriend whose my cousin was there so w decided to pee her off and started saying stuff like we were foolin with each other and all well the truth is i told m friend that i was in love in my sister like way before that even happened and all so that night on the way home we started holding hands and all well when we got home we were in the bed and she started rubbing all over me and all and we messed around well this saturday i kissed her for the very first time and last nite she thought i was bitchin her so i kissed and made up with her she was my 1st kiss by a girll and my 1st french kiss ever i love her and she knows it well she went home today and all i miss her now i know people say this is wrong but i do love her b/c ive had relationshops but this one is real what do i do i just am so confused

Love

Beth

[messedup]

You're in love with your...sister? Well, I'm not here to tell you it's wrong. It's a little odd but it's your life...okay, if you want to make a relationship happen, make sure that's what she wants too. Then take it from there. Be 100% sure that both of you are all right with it. Talk it over and take things slowly.

[nevermindmylife]

well...

ummm...

I don't want to say its wrong...

but then I think... if it was a brother and a sister, even though they might never have really met each other before... it would still be very very wrong... so for equality's sake. I would have to say that it is still wrong for sister and sister to be lovers... but then again, it just doesn't seem as bad.. if you know what I mean...



but eh, all the best to ya... hope you know what you are doing.. cuz don't forget, if this r/s screws up, not only do you lose a lover, but a sister... i.m.o. it would be best to let this one slide before anything truly serious begins

[Abbi]

You're in love with your blood sister.. Wow..

You're not going to like this - But you just can't continue this. I'm sure that your parents will not allow it, and it's just not okay. You need to talk to her about this. I'm sorry that it has to turn out this way, but it's just the way it is.

[lil_blonde_chic14]

i know abbi but its soooooo hard how can i stop something like this i mean we dont just fool around all the time we have a lot in common which makes us to be able to know what the other wants and all we have a relationship already and i know my parents wouldnt approve of course not b/c i mean they arent totally for me being bi much less with my sister but i dont know i have been with many people but ive enver felt this way aobut anyone ever before

[FrozeN]

try starting treat her as a best friend or sumthing

going out with sister is like .. hum .. ew?

not right..

[lil_blonde_chic14]

i honestly dont thinks its "ew" and we are bestfriends i cant beieve i lived my 14 years of like w/o her it sucks i can never marry her or nothing and i hate that i want to be with her forver and hopefully can

[MattMan]

i cant say that i totally agree or disagree with this, because i know what liking your cousin is like, and i can sympathize with what you're feeling, so its similar in ways, but yet different...



it's not a good idea to keep going with this, but if you want to, do what your heart tells you

[Abbi]

Just think about how this will affect your family, because you won't be able to hide this forever.

[lil_blonde_chic14]

i gave her a ring and told her i was in love w/her she said i was crazy im so depressed

[Crazy Bird]

Originally posted by lil_blonde_chic14@Apr 24 2004, 01:55 PM

i gave her a ring and told her i was in love w/her she said i was crazy im so depressed

See. Look. You said you and her felt the same and KNEW what each other wanted. Well she obviously did not like that.



Think of how it will affect your family, how the fact you and your sister become serious - and then break up - you wont be able to go back to being sisters.



Look at eastenders with Sharron & Dennis. That must be hella weird to go from lovers back to sisters.



Good luck,



~ Keli xxx

[Crazy Bird]

Originally posted by rast@Apr 24 2004, 02:52 PM

its natural im sure. I'v had sex with my, at one time, adopted sister, and we are distanatly related........... I dont think that it is THAT wrong.

I know it isn't that wrong, it is VERY common. But if she wants to be "sisters" with her sister after her relationship with her it may be difficult. That is all I am saying.



~ Keli xxx

[5a5]

even though technically u can't choose who ur heart loves, ur situation is a little too messed up for it to work out in the long run i think

[Paris In Flames]

Hey,



Okay...let me get this straight. You met your sister two weeks ago, you screwed one another, you gave her a ring, and told her you love her?



And this was....2 weeks ago?





Okay, first off, you may feel like you love her now, but what you percieve at the age of 14 is totally gonna be different than what you perceive at the age of say, 20...



I think it's odd, but hey, I'm friends with a guy who fucks horses...



Good luck, hun, with her.



Cheers,



Jenna



P.S. What did she say when you told her you loved her?