What The Ladies Look For!
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- Evilknight59
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What The Ladies Look For!
Hello everyone, I just wanted to do something for fun, I was wondering what the ladies look for in everyday guys! To do this I am going to set a list of things girls could look for in guys, and from a scale of 1-10; 1=lowest importance, 5=about medium importance, and 10=highest importance rate what you think int important in the guy you have or want!!!
Looks:?
Personality:?
Morals:?
Beliefs:?
Manners:?
Family:?
Intelligence:?
Playfulness:?
Creativity:?
Sexuality:?
Romanticness:?
Trustworthy:?
Athleticism:?
Just copy and then paste and I guess go with what you can, this is for fun and to just see what you ladies like..... if you want to know about us guys someone make their own little poll/survey!!!
P.S. I know some of the questions/Qualities I listed might not make sense or arent anything major but I needed to add a good bit to see what you all like, if you have any suggestions or other areas add them in with those that you do!! lol...
Looks:?
Personality:?
Morals:?
Beliefs:?
Manners:?
Family:?
Intelligence:?
Playfulness:?
Creativity:?
Sexuality:?
Romanticness:?
Trustworthy:?
Athleticism:?
Just copy and then paste and I guess go with what you can, this is for fun and to just see what you ladies like..... if you want to know about us guys someone make their own little poll/survey!!!
P.S. I know some of the questions/Qualities I listed might not make sense or arent anything major but I needed to add a good bit to see what you all like, if you have any suggestions or other areas add them in with those that you do!! lol...
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Re: What The Ladies Look For!
Looks:? 3/4
Personality:? 10
Morals:? 8/9
Beliefs:? 8/9
Manners:? 5/6
Family:? 0 ...if I like him, I dont care what his family is like
Intelligence:? 7/8 ...not einstein, but I prefer a guy I can have proper convos with
Playfulness:? 6
Creativity:? 1/2
Sexuality:? um... 6/7
Romanticness:? 3
Trustworthy:? 10
Athleticism:? 0
...Thats me, anyway
Personality:? 10
Morals:? 8/9
Beliefs:? 8/9
Manners:? 5/6
Family:? 0 ...if I like him, I dont care what his family is like
Intelligence:? 7/8 ...not einstein, but I prefer a guy I can have proper convos with
Playfulness:? 6
Creativity:? 1/2
Sexuality:? um... 6/7
Romanticness:? 3
Trustworthy:? 10
Athleticism:? 0
...Thats me, anyway
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Re: What The Ladies Look For!
Looks:?..well they are the firs thing i noitece ...so liek 8
Personality:?......10 u need a pesonallity
Morals:?.....meh liek 7
Beliefs:?.....they can beleive w/e they wnat .well to a limit ....umm yeh 5
Manners:?....i like em polite 7
Family:?....when i meet them i hope they liek me and i liek them.....7 and they do
Intelligence:?.well........5
Playfulness:?.10 .i liek to paly
Creativity:?..not to import but it helps 6
Sexuality:?....well ......they ahve to liek grils if their goin out wit moi
Romanticness:?..it helps.....7
Trustworthy:?.....10!!!!!!!!!!!to bad i don't have it
Athleticism:?meh not important really but its ok 7
Personality:?......10 u need a pesonallity
Morals:?.....meh liek 7
Beliefs:?.....they can beleive w/e they wnat .well to a limit ....umm yeh 5
Manners:?....i like em polite 7
Family:?....when i meet them i hope they liek me and i liek them.....7 and they do
Intelligence:?.well........5
Playfulness:?.10 .i liek to paly
Creativity:?..not to import but it helps 6
Sexuality:?....well ......they ahve to liek grils if their goin out wit moi
Romanticness:?..it helps.....7
Trustworthy:?.....10!!!!!!!!!!!to bad i don't have it
Athleticism:?meh not important really but its ok 7
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Re: What The Ladies Look For!
Looks: 5
Personality: 10
Morals: 9
Beliefs: 8
Manners: 8
Family: 3
Intelligence: 8
Playfulness: 8
Creativity: 7
Sexuality: 1
Romanticness: 9
Trustworthy: 10
Athleticism: 7
Personality: 10
Morals: 9
Beliefs: 8
Manners: 8
Family: 3
Intelligence: 8
Playfulness: 8
Creativity: 7
Sexuality: 1
Romanticness: 9
Trustworthy: 10
Athleticism: 7
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Re: What The Ladies Look For!
Notice that everyone has put 10 out of 10 for personality and trustworthy so far...
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Re: What The Ladies Look For!
Looks:5
Personality:10
Morals:8
Beliefs:6
Manners:8 (it bugs me if someone doesnt say please or thankyou! )
Family:7
Intelligence:7
Playfulness:9
Creativity:7
Sexuality:6
Romanticness:5
Trustworthy:10
Athleticism:5
Thats what I think anyway
Personality:10
Morals:8
Beliefs:6
Manners:8 (it bugs me if someone doesnt say please or thankyou! )
Family:7
Intelligence:7
Playfulness:9
Creativity:7
Sexuality:6
Romanticness:5
Trustworthy:10
Athleticism:5
Thats what I think anyway
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Re: What The Ladies Look For!
Looks:?8
Personality:?9
Morals:?7
Beliefs:?5
Manners:?8
Family:?8
Intelligence:?7
Playfulness:?9
Creativity:?3
Sexuality:?10
Romanticness:?7
Trustworthy:?10
Athleticism:?2
Personality:?9
Morals:?7
Beliefs:?5
Manners:?8
Family:?8
Intelligence:?7
Playfulness:?9
Creativity:?3
Sexuality:?10
Romanticness:?7
Trustworthy:?10
Athleticism:?2
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Re: What The Ladies Look For!
Looks: 8..but if you have a beautiful personality, you become a beautiful person in my eyes.
Personality:10...bring on the humor baby!
Morals:10...he needs them as much as i do.
Beliefs:9 they need to be really close to mine...or we'll have confused children
Manners:8...he needs them but they dont need to be perfect.
Family: 5...family is important to me and i would hope his would be to him too...but if he has a crappy family, he cant help it.
Intelligence:5 i cant talk about music forever
Playfulness:6 , cant be serious all the time
Creativity:5 he needs to have some because i dont have a lot.
Sexuality:i dont really know.
Romanticness: 5 its nice to have some.
Trustworthy:9 i need to be able to trust him
Athleticism: 7 its not necessary, but its fun to be able to play volley ball or something together
Im picky...sorry:)
Personality:10...bring on the humor baby!
Morals:10...he needs them as much as i do.
Beliefs:9 they need to be really close to mine...or we'll have confused children
Manners:8...he needs them but they dont need to be perfect.
Family: 5...family is important to me and i would hope his would be to him too...but if he has a crappy family, he cant help it.
Intelligence:5 i cant talk about music forever
Playfulness:6 , cant be serious all the time
Creativity:5 he needs to have some because i dont have a lot.
Sexuality:i dont really know.
Romanticness: 5 its nice to have some.
Trustworthy:9 i need to be able to trust him
Athleticism: 7 its not necessary, but its fun to be able to play volley ball or something together
Im picky...sorry:)
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Re: What The Ladies Look For!
Looks: 4
Personality:10
Morals:5
Beliefs:1
Manners:4
Family:6
Intelligence:5
Playfulness:9
Creativity:3
Sexuality:7
Romanticness:7
Trustworthy:10
Athleticism:1
Personality:10
Morals:5
Beliefs:1
Manners:4
Family:6
Intelligence:5
Playfulness:9
Creativity:3
Sexuality:7
Romanticness:7
Trustworthy:10
Athleticism:1
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Re: What The Ladies Look For!
Looks:8
Personality:10
Morals:6
Beliefs:4
Manners:6
Family:5 (like zanna said- i agree with her)
Intelligence:7
Playfulness:7
Creativity:6
Sexuality:5
Romanticness:8
Trustworthy:10
Athleticism:6
I am quite picky too
Personality:10
Morals:6
Beliefs:4
Manners:6
Family:5 (like zanna said- i agree with her)
Intelligence:7
Playfulness:7
Creativity:6
Sexuality:5
Romanticness:8
Trustworthy:10
Athleticism:6
I am quite picky too
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"I have a feeling that you're riding for some kind of a terrible, terrible fall. . . . This fall I think you're riding for-it's a special kind of fall, a horrible kind. The man falling isn't permitted to feel or hear himself hit bottom. He just keeps falling and falling. The whole arrangement's designed for men who, at some time or other in their lives, were looking for something their own environment couldn't supply them with. Or they thought their own environment couldn't supply them with. So they gave up looking. They gave it up before they ever really even got started"
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"I have a feeling that you're riding for some kind of a terrible, terrible fall. . . . This fall I think you're riding for-it's a special kind of fall, a horrible kind. The man falling isn't permitted to feel or hear himself hit bottom. He just keeps falling and falling. The whole arrangement's designed for men who, at some time or other in their lives, were looking for something their own environment couldn't supply them with. Or they thought their own environment couldn't supply them with. So they gave up looking. They gave it up before they ever really even got started"
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Re: What The Ladies Look For!
Looks:5 or 6
Personality:10
Morals:8
Beliefs:4
Manners:6
Family:2
Intelligence:7
Playfulness:7
Creativity:6
Sexuality:5
Romanticness:7
Trustworthy:10
Athleticism:5
of course it varies...good qualities make up for the bad ones sometimes.
Personality:10
Morals:8
Beliefs:4
Manners:6
Family:2
Intelligence:7
Playfulness:7
Creativity:6
Sexuality:5
Romanticness:7
Trustworthy:10
Athleticism:5
of course it varies...good qualities make up for the bad ones sometimes.
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Re: What The Ladies Look For!
Looks:2-3 it doesnt really matter to me anymore cause i know how it feels to be judged on looks
Personality:10
Morals:7-8ish
Beliefs:7-8ish
Manners:7-8ish lol cause i admit at times im not the most polite girl haha
Family:ive got problems with my family.. so if he does im not gonna judge him on that..
Intelligence:7-8ish
Playfulness:10
Creativity:9
Sexuality: um?? well i would hope hes straight but if hes bi thats fine, what ever irks his perk
Romanticness:....... 6ish i just really want someone whos easy to talk to, and who makes me feel good at the end of the day.
Trustworthy:10
Athleticism: um.. well hes gotta do somethin then just sit or stand around all the time. im not gonna yell at him for not doin some activity.
Personality:10
Morals:7-8ish
Beliefs:7-8ish
Manners:7-8ish lol cause i admit at times im not the most polite girl haha
Family:ive got problems with my family.. so if he does im not gonna judge him on that..
Intelligence:7-8ish
Playfulness:10
Creativity:9
Sexuality: um?? well i would hope hes straight but if hes bi thats fine, what ever irks his perk
Romanticness:....... 6ish i just really want someone whos easy to talk to, and who makes me feel good at the end of the day.
Trustworthy:10
Athleticism: um.. well hes gotta do somethin then just sit or stand around all the time. im not gonna yell at him for not doin some activity.
Once in a lifetime, you find the one you really love.
For now and forever, one love that never ends.
Once in a lifetime, when every star that lights the sky.
Will shine with one reason, leading your heart to the one love you find.
Just once in your life..
Once in a lifetime, you find the one you really love.
For now and forever, one love that never ends.
Just once in a lifetime...
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For now and forever, one love that never ends.
Once in a lifetime, when every star that lights the sky.
Will shine with one reason, leading your heart to the one love you find.
Just once in your life..
Once in a lifetime, you find the one you really love.
For now and forever, one love that never ends.
Just once in a lifetime...
Soda tart!!
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Re: What The Ladies Look For!
Looks:? 5
Personality:? 10
Morals:?6
Beliefs:?6
Manners:?8
Family:?8
Intelligence:?9
Playfulness:?8
Creativity:?8
Sexuality:?8
Romanticness:?9
Trustworthy:?10
Athleticism:?6
Personality:? 10
Morals:?6
Beliefs:?6
Manners:?8
Family:?8
Intelligence:?9
Playfulness:?8
Creativity:?8
Sexuality:?8
Romanticness:?9
Trustworthy:?10
Athleticism:?6
Now you'll find with everything you lose
Your path clears with everything you choose
Is there someway I can show you
The best is yet to come
Your path clears with everything you choose
Is there someway I can show you
The best is yet to come
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Re: What The Ladies Look For!
Looks:5
Personality:9/10
Morals:9
Beliefs:8
Manners:7 (i hate it when theres no please and thank yous i cant help it)
Family:5 (if they have a good family thats awesome and i prefer that but if they have a shitty family then thats okay and i wont judge him on it)
Intelligence:8
Playfulness:8
Creativity:3
Sexuality:0 (im a virgin enough said)
Romanticness:7 (dont always have to be romantic but its nice on special occasions)
Trustworthy: 10
Athleticism:4
~~Kimmy~~
Personality:9/10
Morals:9
Beliefs:8
Manners:7 (i hate it when theres no please and thank yous i cant help it)
Family:5 (if they have a good family thats awesome and i prefer that but if they have a shitty family then thats okay and i wont judge him on it)
Intelligence:8
Playfulness:8
Creativity:3
Sexuality:0 (im a virgin enough said)
Romanticness:7 (dont always have to be romantic but its nice on special occasions)
Trustworthy: 10
Athleticism:4
~~Kimmy~~
She's so big hearted
but not so remarkable
just an ordinary humble girl
expecting nothing as we may
to think it's a pretty person's worth
you are beautiful
and you'd better go show it
so go and look again
you gotta be true only if you really wanna go to the top and you really wanna win
don't believe in living normal
just to satisfy demand
Well, if you wanna get free
and if wanna get smart by the sake of your heart
you should own your lame and stand up tall
but not so remarkable
just an ordinary humble girl
expecting nothing as we may
to think it's a pretty person's worth
you are beautiful
and you'd better go show it
so go and look again
you gotta be true only if you really wanna go to the top and you really wanna win
don't believe in living normal
just to satisfy demand
Well, if you wanna get free
and if wanna get smart by the sake of your heart
you should own your lame and stand up tall
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Re: What The Ladies Look For!
Looks:3-4 (it doesn't matter really to me!)
Personality:9-10
Morals:8-9
Beliefs:6-7
Manners:8
Family:5
Intelligence:7
Playfulness:8
Creativity:8
Sexuality:5
Romanticness:5
Trustworthy:7
Athleticism:4
I think that the one thing that I look for in a guy is confidence and of course sense of humour... someone that matches my crazy sense of humour.
Personality:9-10
Morals:8-9
Beliefs:6-7
Manners:8
Family:5
Intelligence:7
Playfulness:8
Creativity:8
Sexuality:5
Romanticness:5
Trustworthy:7
Athleticism:4
I think that the one thing that I look for in a guy is confidence and of course sense of humour... someone that matches my crazy sense of humour.
"Could you be the one to find me safe and sound? Love is how it's lost not how it's found. I don't know those eyes, but I see beauty there always. I know it's wrong to love you from afar but it's a craze." Azure Ray
"Take a look at yourself, and put your heart upon the shelf. It still bleeds, these wound won't heal, This pain inside is all that's real. Fall, as fire. Fall as fire from the sky above." Stutterfly
"It's all about the icing, and nobody cares about what's inside. You could see the outside face, it looks good, it must be great. And I know that's all you see. What would it matter anyway? Cause I can see right through your pretty, pretty skin today." The Early November
"Take a look at yourself, and put your heart upon the shelf. It still bleeds, these wound won't heal, This pain inside is all that's real. Fall, as fire. Fall as fire from the sky above." Stutterfly
"It's all about the icing, and nobody cares about what's inside. You could see the outside face, it looks good, it must be great. And I know that's all you see. What would it matter anyway? Cause I can see right through your pretty, pretty skin today." The Early November
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Re: What The Ladies Look For!
Thank you Ladies for posting your comments on here, and I did forget to add Confidence and Sence of Humor, but Snowboardgirl_16 covered that!
As I can see like a few said Personality and Trustworthy plays a major part!!!!
As I can see like a few said Personality and Trustworthy plays a major part!!!!
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Re: What The Ladies Look For!
Rates for Kurtis:
Looks:? 8
Personality:?8-9
Morals:?4
Beliefs:? 5-6
Manners:? 7-8
Family:? 2
Intelligence:? uhhhh do I have to answer that one?!?! lol ummm 8?
Playfulness:? 6
Creativity:? 10
Sexuality:? 10
Romanticness:? 4
Trustworthy:? 10
Athleticism:?10
What I want
Looks:?doesn't really matter to me so I'd say like a 3
Personality:? 9
Morals:? 5
Beliefs:? 5
Manners:? 7
Family:? 6
Intelligence:? smart enough to atleast past 6th grade so I'd say a 8
Playfulness:? 8-9
Creativity:? 6-7
Sexuality:?10
Romanticness:?8
Trustworthy:? 10
Athleticism:?5
Looks:? 8
Personality:?8-9
Morals:?4
Beliefs:? 5-6
Manners:? 7-8
Family:? 2
Intelligence:? uhhhh do I have to answer that one?!?! lol ummm 8?
Playfulness:? 6
Creativity:? 10
Sexuality:? 10
Romanticness:? 4
Trustworthy:? 10
Athleticism:?10
What I want
Looks:?doesn't really matter to me so I'd say like a 3
Personality:? 9
Morals:? 5
Beliefs:? 5
Manners:? 7
Family:? 6
Intelligence:? smart enough to atleast past 6th grade so I'd say a 8
Playfulness:? 8-9
Creativity:? 6-7
Sexuality:?10
Romanticness:?8
Trustworthy:? 10
Athleticism:?5
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Re: What The Ladies Look For!
Looks:?6 if u have a wonderful personality it doesnt matter...
Personality:?10 ...
Morals:?8 someone with a good heart ....
Beliefs:?5 we dont have to share the same beliefs
Manners:?5 im not into holding doors and stuff
Family:?6 need simiar views on what future fam is ..
Intelligence:?8 i need to be able to connect wit u
Playfulness:?10 im am very playful....
Creativity:?8 id rather have a thoughtful gift or an interesting date
Sexuality:?9 gotta kno what ur doing
Romanticness:?5 sometime too romantic is corny....
Trustworthy:?10 cant have a relationship w/out trust
Athleticism:?8 i like to go out and have fun more than anything
confidence:? 7 not to cocky but not too self conscious
humor:?6 need to be able to have fun but not constant sarcasm
Personality:?10 ...
Morals:?8 someone with a good heart ....
Beliefs:?5 we dont have to share the same beliefs
Manners:?5 im not into holding doors and stuff
Family:?6 need simiar views on what future fam is ..
Intelligence:?8 i need to be able to connect wit u
Playfulness:?10 im am very playful....
Creativity:?8 id rather have a thoughtful gift or an interesting date
Sexuality:?9 gotta kno what ur doing
Romanticness:?5 sometime too romantic is corny....
Trustworthy:?10 cant have a relationship w/out trust
Athleticism:?8 i like to go out and have fun more than anything
confidence:? 7 not to cocky but not too self conscious
humor:?6 need to be able to have fun but not constant sarcasm
My friend, I am not what i seem. seeming is but a garment i wear- a care woven garment that protects me from thy questioning and thee from my negligence.
the "I" in me, my friend, dwells in the house of silence, and therein it shall remain for ever more, unperceived, unaprochable.
-Kahlil Gibran
the "I" in me, my friend, dwells in the house of silence, and therein it shall remain for ever more, unperceived, unaprochable.
-Kahlil Gibran