Hey,
This is the sadangel log back in and telling you that I now have a boyfriend for all you who helped before. I'm only back because well I got an e-mail about the change well to tell you I also have a problem. Ok I have a major problem I love my boyfriend but now that I'm in a foster home and the 14 year old boy that is so cute but see I am 16 so I don't think that it is right. I am right, right does age really make a different if I like him I should ask him woy I'm confesded what about my boyfriend. Should I lose him. But I like him to can some one HELP ME Please.
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Re: So Confused
listen, u shouldnt confuse the bond u have with ur boyfriend with the physical attraction u have to this boy. listen to me, i've been there, done that. what u have with ur boyfriend by the sound of things is far more special than a fling ur going to have with this boy.
the age difference doesnt really matter, as long he's at the same mental maturity level u r, it's all fine.
but if ur really serious about ending it with ur boyfriend, there are some things u should do first, or think about:
Find out if the boy likes u, u wouldnt want to waste ur relationship with ur boyfriend if really nothing's going to matter.
Find out how important u r to your boyfriend
Wouldnt it be weird now that u live in the same place with the boy to have something going on? i mean ok u'd have plenty of time with each other but if it doesnt work out? wouldnt it be an uncomfortable situation?
anw, by me, i think stick with ur boyfriend. in the long run, u'll find out that he means a lot more to u than this boy that's CUTE. there's a lot of cute guys, should u dump ur boyfriend because of them?
hope this helped!
phoenix
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the age difference doesnt really matter, as long he's at the same mental maturity level u r, it's all fine.
but if ur really serious about ending it with ur boyfriend, there are some things u should do first, or think about:
Find out if the boy likes u, u wouldnt want to waste ur relationship with ur boyfriend if really nothing's going to matter.
Find out how important u r to your boyfriend
Wouldnt it be weird now that u live in the same place with the boy to have something going on? i mean ok u'd have plenty of time with each other but if it doesnt work out? wouldnt it be an uncomfortable situation?
anw, by me, i think stick with ur boyfriend. in the long run, u'll find out that he means a lot more to u than this boy that's CUTE. there's a lot of cute guys, should u dump ur boyfriend because of them?
hope this helped!
phoenix
xx
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Are losing theirs, and blaming in on u
If u can trust urself when all men doubt u
But make allowance for their doubting 2
If u can wait, and not be tired by waiting
Or, being lied about, don't deal in lies
Or, being hated, don't give way to hating
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Are losing theirs, and blaming in on u
If u can trust urself when all men doubt u
But make allowance for their doubting 2
If u can wait, and not be tired by waiting
Or, being lied about, don't deal in lies
Or, being hated, don't give way to hating
And yet, don't look 2 good, nor talk too wise
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