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- Stuck911
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Help Please
So me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months now. And as much as I didn't belive in love at first sight he changed that . Like you have to pri us away from eachother most of the time. Well last weekend he asked me to marry him, I was super excited and said yes. I still want to but it's kinda weird. I mean he's a lot older then me.. and we couldn't get married here . So he made this plan for us over the next year. Which involves me get emancipated, me moving in with him, letting our band get bigger, and finally moving to Europe where we are ok to be together. I really love him but I'm not sure if this is the best plan. can you guys give some advice?
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Re: Help Please
well how old is the guy?
I'm engaged too, and my boyfriend is younger than you (assuming your profile is correct and you're turning 16 soon, my bf is 15); however, I am 18. but we're going along the lines of that whole elongated engagement thing..
We're waiting until I'm at least out of college and he has finished 2 years of community college (so, essentially, when I'm 22/23 and he's 19/20).
Why are you guys in such a rush to get married? There's no harm done with living together or anything under an engagement..or even just waiting until you're old enough to be independent w/o an emancipation.
Longer engagements let you triple check that he really is the one. Goodluck with it all I wish you well
I'm engaged too, and my boyfriend is younger than you (assuming your profile is correct and you're turning 16 soon, my bf is 15); however, I am 18. but we're going along the lines of that whole elongated engagement thing..
We're waiting until I'm at least out of college and he has finished 2 years of community college (so, essentially, when I'm 22/23 and he's 19/20).
Why are you guys in such a rush to get married? There's no harm done with living together or anything under an engagement..or even just waiting until you're old enough to be independent w/o an emancipation.
Longer engagements let you triple check that he really is the one. Goodluck with it all I wish you well
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Re: Help Please
Yeah, how old is he and how old are you?
If you're not comfortable with this plan, sit him down and explain to him that you do love and want to marry him but not right away. That you need some time to just be engaged.
Good luck.
If you're not comfortable with this plan, sit him down and explain to him that you do love and want to marry him but not right away. That you need some time to just be engaged.
Good luck.
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Being emancipated will take longer than a year. And if you're only 15 - take much more time than a year. Marriage isn't all that it's cracked up to be. Take the time to really consider your opions maturely. It can really save a whole lot of possible drama.
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I wouldnt be in a rush hunny, just let things take their time. YOu can get emancipated and live with him but make sure your happy and doing the right thing ok? Good luck.
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