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i have no idea where this goes because it covers about fifty different topics, but here is the best place for it i think.



just a vent...



well, i went to the movies with my boyfriend last night (the bf i've had since monday lol- first date), and all i could think of sometimes, especially during the first kiss was the last person to touch these lips was carol. don't get me wrong, i loved kissing him (haha :grin:) but i couldn't help but think that... for those of you who haven't heard the story, carol was my best friend, and she killed herself last november. but anyway, it just made me so sad to think that...



*sighs*



like i said, i guess it's just a vent.
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Is it a bad reminder of your friend? EVen when bad things happen you should always try to just remember the good.
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You know Carol loved you and that she would be ECSTATIC that you and Daniel are together. :)



It's okay to remember her, good even, but it's not good to let remembering her keep you from doing the good things that she would want for you.



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It's not so much a bad reminder, but it's a reminder that makes me remember I'll never see her again... that our time is over. I've gotten over thinking of her when I kiss him... but that first one really upset me. *sighs*



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Glad to hear your feeling a little better.
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I'm glad the bad feelings are gone when you kiss him. :)



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IS everything going ok now? Are all the feelings of your friend gone?
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Yes, things are going quite well. Carol doesn't even cross my mind when I kiss him, which is definitely a good thing. It's all okay now. :)
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