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Post by Stuck911 » Fri Feb 03, 2006 2:01 am

OK so things aren't looking to great with my oh-so-perfect relationship. So recently I got in trouble with my family, which really screws up things with my boyfriend. See there's an age difference so when I sleep over on weekends it's like our time together. Well since I got in trouble I haven't been able to sleep over every weekend. And my boyfriend isn't taking it well at all. Like he'll say things like," Well it's hard when I can't even spend the night with my own girlfriend, I mean that was one thing I always knew we had and now that's being taken away." I understand why he feels like this but I mean I feel horrible already.. do I really need to feel worst? I love him to death and I'm trying so hard to make things better for us but there's only so much I can do. I guess I'm just venting, but can anyone think of ways for us to spend more time together?
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Post by iHEAVENn » Fri Feb 03, 2006 7:25 pm

Spend the days together?

Try talking to your family bout what happend... and maybe work out a comprimise like spend every other weekend with him.
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Post by Stuck911 » Mon Feb 06, 2006 2:44 pm

Well it's hard to talk to my famliy about him, cause well they don't know about him....
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Post by SadAngel2005 » Mon Feb 06, 2006 5:15 pm

:huh:

you haven't told your family about your boyfriend. does he know that you got in trouble. have you told anyone about ur probs. that is close to. i need to know more
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Post by iHEAVENn » Mon Feb 06, 2006 7:47 pm

Err do they know it's him you spend the weekends with then?? If not.. you're setting yourself up for more trouble..
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Post by Stuck911 » Mon Feb 06, 2006 7:50 pm

they know that i'm with him, they just dont know we go out
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Post by iHEAVENn » Tue Feb 07, 2006 2:41 am

Well maybe you should try talking to them about it???
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Post by Anna_Banana » Tue Feb 07, 2006 2:47 am

you should explain to him that your doing all you can. he might be getting upset bc he doesnt think you're trying....but try to spend some time together during the days...spending a little time together is better than not spending any at all.
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Post by Stuck911 » Tue Feb 07, 2006 8:23 pm

Thanks guys<3 I would talk to my parents abotu it... if it wasn't for the age difference.
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Post by iHEAVENn » Tue Feb 07, 2006 9:56 pm

How big of an age difference are we talking about?

From my own experience most parents are fine with a 3-4 year age gap.
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Post by Stuck911 » Tue Feb 07, 2006 10:07 pm

Well let's just say it more then that
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Post by iHEAVENn » Tue Feb 07, 2006 10:08 pm

Ahh okay lol.

Well then just tell him, for right now there's not much you can do about it, and you're sorry it happend but you know you two can get past this rough spot.
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Post by snowboardgirl_16 » Wed Feb 08, 2006 1:53 am

Have your parents met him? Or have gotten to know him at all? I don't know, but maybe having your parents get to know him a little, it might ease up some tension between them about him. If you love him, I'm sure that once they see what a great guy that you see in him, the age difference may not be such a big deal.. and maybe they'll understand that you two want to spend time together. I don't know.. that's just my opinion
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Post by Stuck911 » Thu Feb 09, 2006 3:02 pm

Well, we are getting along a lot bette now. mainly because we got some unexpected news... but he is ok with the time we spend together now which is cool.
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