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However before we were officially together, there was this other guy who liked her, and who she kinda liked too. However as it panned out, i was the one she chose so yay!
This guy is a mate of hers and he's at this sports club she goes to every week, and recently it was my girlfriends birthday, and she threw a big party and he was invited.
She invited him whilst speaking to him over instant messenger, and i was with her too. He said to her "hows girly hair" - now i'm a guy and have long hair, so he likes to mock me and call me 'girly hair' so i started speaking to him over instant messenger, and was like "oi that's not very nice is it!" kinda being joking and friendly, and he replied with "i don't know why she is with you, not when she could have a real man like me"
This kinda hurt me - but i let it pass, overall he's probably jealous because she chose me.
At my girlfriends big party, he came along however totally blanked me the whole night, apart from when he openly pointed and laughed at me, but again i let it pass, i mean i didn't want to start anything, not on her special night.
That night i stayed round my girlfriends house, and she told me that through the night this guy had come up to her saying "why are you with him when you can have me?" and similar things, (even though he has a girlfriend of his own)
I got really angry as that is totally unacceptable as far as i'm concerned, and i felt useless as he had 'gotten away with it'
My girlfriend assures me that he probably doesn't mean it, and he's just a right **** like that sometimes.
Thing is it really worries me, i don't know why.
And soon her sports club are going traveling, and now she can legally drink alcohol i'm scared he is going to try and get her drunk (she can't drink that much, because she's only small!) and try to take advantage.
I dunno it just really choked me,
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Your path clears with everything you choose
Is there someway I can show you
The best is yet to come
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I'm ashamed at what I did for a Klondac bar.......
I want a realtionship I can finally sink my teeth into