Too Emotional
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rockerchick
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Too Emotional
Hey, I don't really know what to do. I've been dating this guy for 1 year and almost 9 months, and I love him with all of my heart. Honestly, I want to marry him, but lately he's been acting oddly. I've always known that he's an emotional guy, but lately it's just kind of overwhelming! He's been extremely emotional about every little tiny thing, and I don't know what to do. Please help! I don't really know what i'm asking for help for, but if you have any advice, please feel free to give it!
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sweethelp
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Re: Too Emotional
i would honestly just try talking to him and tell him how you feel and whats going on. i really think thats the best way and the best thing you can do. if you really love him then he needs to know whats going on.
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but not so remarkable
just an ordinary humble girl
expecting nothing as we may
to think it's a pretty person's worth
you are beautiful
and you'd better go show it
so go and look again
you gotta be true only if you really wanna go to the top and you really wanna win
don't believe in living normal
just to satisfy demand
Well, if you wanna get free
and if wanna get smart by the sake of your heart
you should own your lame and stand up tall
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Re: Too Emotional
If you want to know you have to sit down and talk to him. He isn't going to sit you down and tell you. Guys just don't do that. Guys can be emotional. My boyfriend is emotional. He cries at the drop of a hat. But we talk about it. Since him and I live together, we have our best talks in bed at night. If you both don't live together, i would suggest just getting in a relaxing atmosphere and just opening up. Maybe if you open up about something, then that will encourage him to open up as well. good luck.
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Stuck911
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Re: Too Emotional
Just ask him why things are taking him over so much?
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rockerchick
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See, I've tried talking to him about it, but then he gets even more emotional and thinks i don't like him anymore, even when i tell him that it's not about that. So how do i tell him that he's annoying me without him getting the idea that i don't like him? And when we do just open up (opening up is not a problem for us, we tell each other everything) about this kind of stuff we usually just get into a fight because of me, i have an extremely short temper so if he responds with something like "You must not like me" then i respond by getting mad at him for thinking that, and then we have a whole new problem, so yeah. Any advice? Thanks a bunch.
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Stuck911
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Re: Too Emotional
That is kind of a problem. Um well tell him before you say anything that you really like him and that you just want to know what's going on. Really just tell him that you want to help if you can.
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I'm ashamed at what I did for a Klondac bar.......
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Re: Too Emotional
Talk to him. That's all you can do at the moment. Maybe he's got something on his mind, he's not sure about telling you. Try to tell him you love him, and really want to help. That's the best advice I can give you at the moment.
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So long and goodnight
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What's the worst that I can say?
Things are better if I stay
So long and goodnight
So long and goodnight
Well if you carry on this way
Things are better if I stay
So long and goodnight
So long and goodnight
Can you hear me?
Are you near me?
Do we deserve, to leave the earth
we'll meet again
When both our hearts collide
Awesome website: ZFGC