So i've been with Judy for 8 1/2 months now, and her mom's never really liked that fact, despite that it was her idea for us to hang out and talk more a while ago. Well, it started that way, and just kept progressing, and now her mom's not happy.
The other week she was telling my mother all about how i do "not nice things online when you (my parents) go to bed." See, the thing is... i dont give her reason to dislike me. Judy and i keep our physical relationship as far away from her as possible, so she doesnt see anything going on. Still, small things, like holding hands pisses her off.
Example: This past weekend, Judy and i were sitting on her couch just talking, with our faces litterally an inch apart, and her mom poked her head around the corner and asked what we were doing in a suspicious sounding voice.
I asked if i could talk to her sometime about this and all, but instead she directed me to her husband (a lawyer). I know the guy, he's been at least civil twoards me this whole time, but instead, he defended his wife's statements. He said that what she probably ment was that my parents "just dont know what you do after they go to bed, so how do you know what i'm doing isnt wrong?"
At the end of all this, they both encouraged me to come talk to them if i ever had any questions. ::sarcasm:: right...
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Wait so what do they think your doing after your parents go to bed?
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I have no idea. Her father said that the mother was just trying to make a point that they dont know what i do after they go to bed, so therefore, they should check more often, because if they dont knowj, then they shouldn't say to someoene "oh, no he wouldnt do that."
i dont know, i thought it was pretty fucked up.
I also just realized that i never said what i wanted people's opinions on... this isnt just a rant, i promise
Any ideas on things i could do/say to make her think of me better?
i dont know, i thought it was pretty fucked up.
I also just realized that i never said what i wanted people's opinions on... this isnt just a rant, i promise
Any ideas on things i could do/say to make her think of me better?
[CENTER]So you're the fire and I'm the water.
I am the balance and you are the color.
I won't forget you when we're not together.
This is the ending, here's my surrender.[/CENTER]
I am the balance and you are the color.
I won't forget you when we're not together.
This is the ending, here's my surrender.[/CENTER]
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Oh.. ok I see now. Sometimes parents will just not like you. You can try to prove to her that your not doing anything wrong and that you desevered to be trusted. But usually there's not a lot you can do about it.
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<span style="font-family:Impact"Show by action that you can be trusted. I know this will suck, but the best way to do that is not do any of the things the mom gets onto you about. Parents can be pretty overprotective at times. It may mean they just don't want to give up their daughter. I hope that things change for the better for you. Good luck!
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I can relate with you. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 and a half years. His mom still hates me because "I took away her only son". It has gotten to the point that I never see her and my boyfriend now lives with me. I have tried to talk our differences out with her and she just doesn't get it. She won't listen. Not getting along with your significant others parents is a hard situation. If they are willing to talk to you about it, you should do it. You should reinforce how much you care about their daughter and you only want whats best for her. You aren't going to hurt her. The best thing to do is be honest. Whatever they ask you, just tell them the truth. DON'T LIE. It is the worst thing to do. No matter what.... be brave. Parents can be brave. Stand up for yourself. but don't be defensive.
good luck
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