Really Worried
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- Stuck911
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So I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months now and we're really happy.. or that's what I thought. We both have eachothers passwords for myspace so we can check eachothers stuff for one another. not cause we don't trust eachother, just so we can check it for eachother. So he asked me to check his for him and I did. He had a new message so I told him but I didn't read it. so later that week he asked me to check it again for stuff. So I did he had another new message and a friend request. When I went to click on friend request I hit trash on accident ( it really was an accident). There was a message from this girl, it said that he wanted her to come over and that he thought her new pics looked amazing :'( .... I know he likes to flirt but that was weird of him to ask someone to actually come over... I don't know if anythings going on but I'm really worried. Can any help me with what I should do ?
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Re: Really Worried
Trust him. Talk to him about it but if he says theres nothing going on then believe him till you have facts of him cheating on you.
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Re: Really Worried
It's kind of stupid for him to be doing that if he knows you check it for him o.0
Meh, talk to him.... Hell talk to her haha.
Find out what's going on.
Meh, talk to him.... Hell talk to her haha.
Find out what's going on.
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Re: Really Worried
thanks guys. i'm just scared that he'll think i was trying to find something. i mena it was a total accident but ugh....
DON'T HIT KIDS..... No seriously...... They have guns now
I'm ashamed at what I did for a Klondac bar.......
I want a realtionship I can finally sink my teeth into
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Re: Really Worried
Talk to him about it! He knows you check it, so I don't know why he would have someone he was cheating with email him or leave him messages on an account he KNOWS his girlfriend will check. Perhaps because he knows u check it he knows u know theres nothing funny going on...
talk to him about it anyways to make sure all is ok but chances are they are just good friends. AND even if this girl likes ur guy- it doesnt mean he is gona do nething about it. Hes got you!!!
talk to him about it anyways to make sure all is ok but chances are they are just good friends. AND even if this girl likes ur guy- it doesnt mean he is gona do nething about it. Hes got you!!!
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Just ask him. Tell him everything you just told here and ask him what it means (not frowning, not angry or anything, just calmly, like a friend..)
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Re: Really Worried
Yeah, don't accuse him of anything or he'll probably take it badly and the trust might be lost. Just tell him you clicked on it accidently and didn't mean to delete it. Tell him that you trust him because if he's letting you (even asking you!!!) to check his emails for him then its very very very unlikely he's cheating! Just appologise for deleting the thing and tell him what it was.
Sorry didn't realise this was so out of date...
Sorry didn't realise this was so out of date...