So Very Very Confused
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- Stuck911
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So Very Very Confused
Hey everyone. I have another problem with my boyfriend. So awhile back he said that he didn't want me to miss out on everything that I should be doing in highschool ( he is older then me), and I thought that was really sweet of him. So I started to hang out with friends more and stuff. Then a weekl later he said that if I ever liked anyone that he didn't want me to pass it up because of him. So I'm really confused about what he wants. Like he tells me he lovese me all the time and he always wants me around him. So I'm just wondering if he wants to break up or if he feels like he's holding me back.....any help would be good.
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Re: So Very Very Confused
I guess you would have to ask him to know for sure, but I'll offer my opinion (take it for whatever it's worth). I think this guy isn't sure what he wants. He loves you, and so he wants what's best for you and he knows that that would be for you to hang out with your friends and people your own age. But, at the same time, he wants to spend all of his time with you and he probably feels left out and lonely when you are with people who he doesn't know.
I would sit down, talk with him, and tell him how you're feeling and how confused you are. That is the only way to get a straight, clear, honest answer.
Good luck!
Love, Hannah
I would sit down, talk with him, and tell him how you're feeling and how confused you are. That is the only way to get a straight, clear, honest answer.
Good luck!
Love, Hannah
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Re: So Very Very Confused
That is really weird. Maybe he feels like he doesn't deserve you. He doesn't want to hold you back. A lot of guys who are older then there girlfriends don't want to hold them back. High school is supposed to be a fun time. I had the same boyfriend all through high school and he was older then me. I always felt like I was missing out. I couldn't go to parties and randomly flirt with other guys and stuff because I was attached. You should confront him about it. Ask him straight out if he wants to break up with you. If he says yes then you know but if he says no then ask him why he is pushing you away.
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Re: So Very Very Confused
But I don't feel like I'm being held back at all. Liek both of us are pretty big flirts and get a kick out of it. Like we talk openly abotu how other people like us and it's funny for us. I just don't know and I'm kinda scared to ask.
DON'T HIT KIDS..... No seriously...... They have guns now
I'm ashamed at what I did for a Klondac bar.......
I want a realtionship I can finally sink my teeth into
I'm ashamed at what I did for a Klondac bar.......
I want a realtionship I can finally sink my teeth into