So There's This Little Problem...
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RockNpUnKchic123
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So There's This Little Problem...
My boyfriend recently went to college. Im not the jealous type like usually he can hang out with girls and im fine. But there's one girl who's he's known since middle school, that i just can't stand him to be around. And it isn't because i don't trust him. I don't trust her. And on more than one occaision he's gotten off the phone with me to go do something with her. And he'll say oh yea, she was in my room today. and he'll tell me things like if i hadn't met you id probly be dating her. and that kinda bugs me. But im not worried about him cheating on me and we're engaged, but it still makes me feel like crap-ola. Help? Anyone?
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Each time a faucet opens
Words are spoken
The water runs away
And I hear your name
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Who sailed around the world and found
That nothing else exists
Beyond his own two sails and wooden shell
And what is held within
All else is sure to pass
We clutch and grasp
And debate what's truly permanent
But when the wind starts to shift
Well, there's no argument
And hold the earth in place
Each time a faucet opens
Words are spoken
The water runs away
And I hear your name
No, nothing has changed
There was this book I read and loved
The story of a ship
Who sailed around the world and found
That nothing else exists
Beyond his own two sails and wooden shell
And what is held within
All else is sure to pass
We clutch and grasp
And debate what's truly permanent
But when the wind starts to shift
Well, there's no argument
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Kit
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Re: So There's This Little Problem...
Tell him how you feel. Just ask him not to make so many comments like that to you. If you're not comfortable what abything he says or dos you should always tell him. If he truly loves you, he'll take it into consideration.
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Stuck911
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Re: So There's This Little Problem...
Tell him you don't feel comfortable when he says stuff like that to you. You can't tell him to not hang out with her, but ask him to make a little more time for you and not always run off.
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Re: So There's This Little Problem...
You need to play this one smart...
Because telling him outright that he cannot hang out with this girl will make you come across as the possessive, clingy girl friend/fiance. And that will make him more likely to hang out with her and not you!!!
I suggest you have a serious chat with him about your concerns. Tell him how much he means to you and that, whislt you understand that he enjoys her company on occasion, you would prefer it if he didn't talk about her so much to you. Tell him that its fine for him to have female friends, but if the girl likes him then he needs to watch out and be more careful around her.
Because telling him outright that he cannot hang out with this girl will make you come across as the possessive, clingy girl friend/fiance. And that will make him more likely to hang out with her and not you!!!
I suggest you have a serious chat with him about your concerns. Tell him how much he means to you and that, whislt you understand that he enjoys her company on occasion, you would prefer it if he didn't talk about her so much to you. Tell him that its fine for him to have female friends, but if the girl likes him then he needs to watch out and be more careful around her.
Because sometimes, when you turn and walk away, you get the feeling that everything collapses behind you. But maybe it isn't your problem anymore?