I Love My Best Friend

Have a major crush on that special girl but she doesn't like you in the least? Are you in love with a guy who doesn't even notice you? Whatever it might be, ask here. We'll give you some advice.

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popsicle
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I Love My Best Friend

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so heres the deal.

whenever i talk to somebody about my best friend they say, it sounds like you care about him more than just a best friend.

ive known him for 6 or 7 years.

i fell in love with the guy the first time i ever saw him.

hes the first guy i ever fell in love with.

hes the only guy ive ever been in love with.

it took me 5 years to get over him.

but i know im not over him.

why not take action you ask?

hes so gay im more of a guy than him.

i dont have some distorted image of him just deciding hes not gay one day.

that would be retarded.

i occasionally laugh at girls who are in my position but still think they have a chance.

even if he wasnt gay i wouldnt have a chance.

WAY out of my leauge kind of thing.

how am i supposed to get over this kid?

i totally believe that saying "you never get over your first love" now.

hes my best friend in the whole world.

i talk to him every single day.

i trust him and love him more than anybody else.

hes done more for me than he'll ever know.

im clearly so dependent on him its not healthy.

i love him now like my best friend.

not anything else.

but i know im not over him.

but hes a part of me.

i dont know what the question is.
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I think you should definately continue to be his friend, But in opinion, you might never get over him, so you'll just have to be contempt being his friend. Maybe though, you could think about the bad side of dating him; and how if you to went out and then broke up your friendhsip might be ruined. It could maybe help.
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In this case I'm going to have to say you should try to get used to the idea of just being his really good friend. It's that bad if you think about it. Boyfriends come and go, friends are forever
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