Dating Again

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I'm dating again now that the rape is over but do I tell him what happened and that I'm pregnant?
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I think he needs to know what happened.. also he should know that you are pregnant... Rape is pretty serious... when i was younger... a lot of things happened to me that affect my intimate relationship with my bf... something like rape is likely going to affect how you act around him.. and if he doesnt know what happened.. he might assume that it is something that he did.. Honesty is a very big part to a relationship...

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You should definitly tell him. He needs to know that if you start to withdrawl or anything that it's not him.
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I don't think you need to tell a guy you're just casually going out with. If someone just invites you for dinner and a movie, no serious relationship, you don't need to scare him or hurt yourself by telling him all about what happened to you. I don't think that's needed OR good for either of you.



However, if you're going to have a more serious and long term relationship, yeah. He needs to know. That way if you get upset or something freaks you out, he'll understand. And he'll be extra careful to let you know that you're safe with him.



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