He Called Me His Girlfriends Name...

[love_not_war]

okay, so i was on the phone a couple nights ago, with a guy i kinda sorta like.. and around 6 months ago, we kinda sorta had a "thing". but not really. we just talked on the phone.. every night. and he liked me, and i liked him. but it never went anywhere.. so we stoped talking for quite sometime. and i knew he had gotten a girlfriend since then. but i thought id text him anyways. so he called me, and we talked for around three hours... but like half way thru the conversation he called me his girlfriends name[which, by the way, he doesnt even like her. he just doesnt want to hurt her feelings.. which i told him hes going to end up doing anyways].. i told him he did it, but i kinda just shook it off, even tho it bugged me.. so we kept on talking, and a few mins before we hung up, he did it again... but this time it really bugged me. and i got kinda pissy, so i let him go..... we havent talked since tho. and i dont plan on us talking again... i dont wanna bug him anymore... but should i have let it bother me so much? or should i just be like whatever? i mean, he musta been thinking about her, or he wouldent of said it.. he shoulda just told me he didnt wanna talk to me or whatever tho then... ugh.. what would you guys of done??

[sinical_sycology]

maybe he felt that he was talking to his girlfriend.....you nvr know, and him calling your name it just might habitual since there was a time separation between you two

[Lena]

I suppose he could have been thinking about her. Or it could (as SS said) have been familiarity. Don't forget he initiated calling you. If he didn't want to talk, he could have just texted or not contacted you at all.

I often mix friends names up, and that doesn't mean I care any less about the person I'm talking to, I'm just scatty. LOL.



I guess the best thing to do - if its really bugging you this much - is to ask him about it (and tell him why you're asking).



Take care,



Lena.

[FranklinF]

i know when me and my boyfriend first got together i always wanted to call him by my ex's name, its prolly just a simple mistake...



also... i know it may not be the total same thing but my mother has seven kids and most of the time she has to go through every other girls name before she gets to the right one....

[sinical_sycology]

^lol that's very funny

[CanadaCraig]

Hi love_not_war!!



I appreciate WHY that would have upset you - but try to keep in mind - there is a REASON WHY a lot of couples call each other 'Honey' and 'Baby'!! It's less risky than saying the wrong NAME!! I wouldn't take it too personally.



GREAT BIG HUG

Craig!!

[Nikki]

lol, come on, it doesn't mean anything. It's not like you're lovers and he did it in bed. It's a simple lapsus, and even if they happen for a reason as says Freud, it could be a simple mistake. It happens to me all the time - call a friend by another friend's name. And it doesn't mean that I'm in love with that other friend or that I was thinking about them while talking

[sinical_sycology]

^^^ boy you do not want to call a girl another girl's name while you're having sex.....the situation gets a little ugly lol

[Nikki]

haha, yea, especially for a jealous girl

[CanadaCraig]

^^^ boy you do not want to call a girl another girl's name while you're having sex.....the situation gets a little ugly lol

[/b]

And it will get SUPER UGLY if you call her by your MOTHER'S NAME!! lol



GREAT BIG HUG

Craig!!

[FranklinF]

or by her mothers name, also by an ugly chicks name that would piss me off.

[sinical_sycology]

I wonder what would happen if you said your best buddy's name during sex.......I bet that'd be weird...but yeah don't say another girl's name when you're in bed with your gf....I've accidentally done that before, it sucks really it does....especially when that other girl's name is her sister's lol oh boy

[angel88]

okay, so i was on the phone a couple nights ago, with a guy i kinda sorta like.. and around 6 months ago, we kinda sorta had a "thing". but not really. we just talked on the phone.. every night. and he liked me, and i liked him. but it never went anywhere.. so we stoped talking for quite sometime. and i knew he had gotten a girlfriend since then. but i thought id text him anyways. so he called me, and we talked for around three hours... but like half way thru the conversation he called me his girlfriends name[which, by the way, he doesnt even like her. he just doesnt want to hurt her feelings.. which i told him hes going to end up doing anyways].. i told him he did it, but i kinda just shook it off, even tho it bugged me.. so we kept on talking, and a few mins before we hung up, he did it again... but this time it really bugged me. and i got kinda pissy, so i let him go..... we havent talked since tho. and i dont plan on us talking again... i dont wanna bug him anymore... but should i have let it bother me so much? or should i just be like whatever? i mean, he musta been thinking about her, or he wouldent of said it.. he shoulda just told me he didnt wanna talk to me or whatever tho then... ugh.. what would you guys of done??

[/b]

Oh wow. I wouldve hung up honestly. I would've never let a guy call me his females name. . . That's disrespectful. If he's supposed to be on the phone w/u and only talking to you then he shouldn't be think about anything else but you. U did right. About him never or not talking to you again. He will and he will eventually leave her and most likely come back to you. So be prepared. It's happened to me. That's what guys do. They want to explore their options and then when they find out how good they had it w/a female that they really liked or cared for then they will be back. Be aware though.