Friend Or Not?

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Ok lately I've been telling this friend I don't even know if I would call him that anymore has been touching me and making comments about my breasts. I have told him to stop and well he hasn't today my boyfriend and I turned him in for sexual harassment because that is what he said it was and well now I'm scared I will lose him as a friend. My question is was he ever really my friend or not? Should I keep sitting at his table at lunch or what should I do?
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no he was not your friend, and dont keep sitting with him it just says to him "sure i like you trying to touch me and making me feel uncomfortable."
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Not a friend. Never was and never should be again. Move on and stick with making true friends who love you and like you for you.
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Thanks everyone this has really helped me.
Our attitude towards life determines lifes attitude towards us.

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People don't die from suicide they die from sadness.

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That which nourishes me also destroys me.

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definetely NOT a friend. He was just using you to get his kicks.



YOU deserve more respect than that, you're a wonderful person and he should respect you more. Don't ever forget that.
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He's still harassing me I don't know who to turn to I've already turned him in once what do I do?
Our attitude towards life determines lifes attitude towards us.

-Earl Nighingale



I may have done some things that are wrong but hey who hasn't? I don't know anyone that is perfect. Do you?



People don't die from suicide they die from sadness.

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That which nourishes me also destroys me.

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turn him in again, and get a restraining order
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Who did you turn him in to before? School authorities? If you did, and they haven't done anything, is there any teacher or any official at the school who you trust and who you think would do something? Honestly, tell anyone and everyone you can, repeatedly, until something happens and someone takes some action. If no one at the school will do anything, you should tell them that you'll go to the police. I'm trying to look up what the police can do and am having a hard time sifting through all the legal stuff, but I'll try and let you know.



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The guidence counselor is who I turned him in to before he said he would talk to him and let him know that if he didn't stop that he would then get into trouble with the principal. But I will take your suggestions.
Our attitude towards life determines lifes attitude towards us.

-Earl Nighingale



I may have done some things that are wrong but hey who hasn't? I don't know anyone that is perfect. Do you?



People don't die from suicide they die from sadness.

-ANONYMOUS





That which nourishes me also destroys me.

ANGELINA JOLIE -So true for me. I believe it.
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