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- Kit
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Welp -the time has come for me to say "see ya later" to my husband once again while he leaves to Iraq for another 7 months tomorrow. Unfortunately, I can't go to see his departure because I will be droped from my class. He says he knows that I support him but I fear he'll doubt that support if I don't go. He's talked to my instructor and she wont budge. But he wont let me quit either. I don't know what he wants me to do. I've asked and all he says is to work for our future. *sigh* How am I supposed to sit in a class room if I wont be able to sit still or not cry when I know he is leaving? How do I make everyone happy?
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Friend,
Fist off I am sorry that you are going through such an ordeal. I can't imagine having someone I care about so deeply simply being away for that period of time, much less being in Iraq. The simple answer to your question is that you can NOT make everyone happy. If he is saying for you to work for your future, then I would deduct that he means that he understands that you want to be there when he leaves, but that is not possible because in the bigger picture your education is more important to both of your futures.
I am not saying thats what he means, but thats what I gather from what you have shared with us.
-Hope this helps
-FiZz
Fist off I am sorry that you are going through such an ordeal. I can't imagine having someone I care about so deeply simply being away for that period of time, much less being in Iraq. The simple answer to your question is that you can NOT make everyone happy. If he is saying for you to work for your future, then I would deduct that he means that he understands that you want to be there when he leaves, but that is not possible because in the bigger picture your education is more important to both of your futures.
I am not saying thats what he means, but thats what I gather from what you have shared with us.
-Hope this helps
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do something special for him tonight just the two of you. and in the morning as well
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i'm sorry hun.
Like he said, do something really special for him tonight.
buy him something that he can take with him maybe? Or write him a really long letter for him to read supporting him and everything.
Your going to cry no matter what. Crying isn't always a bad thing though.
This is a really tough time, but try to make the best of it.
He'll be back in 7 months, then you have your whole lifes to spend together.
And 2 months after that you'll have a babbbbby!
Theres always stuff you can look forward to. It makes time go SO much faster, I promise!
If you need someone to talk to also, you can always IM me
Tell him I said good luck && to come home safley!!
&& Remember; You have TONS of support.
XoxO
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Like he said, do something really special for him tonight.
buy him something that he can take with him maybe? Or write him a really long letter for him to read supporting him and everything.
Your going to cry no matter what. Crying isn't always a bad thing though.
This is a really tough time, but try to make the best of it.
He'll be back in 7 months, then you have your whole lifes to spend together.
And 2 months after that you'll have a babbbbby!
Theres always stuff you can look forward to. It makes time go SO much faster, I promise!
If you need someone to talk to also, you can always IM me
Tell him I said good luck && to come home safley!!
&& Remember; You have TONS of support.
XoxO
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Re: Iraq
aww, sorry hunn.
seven months is going to be tough, so it's totally okay to cry.
beautiful is right - only seven months, and then you get your whole lives together.
it'll be okay. you both will be in my prayers.
seven months is going to be tough, so it's totally okay to cry.
beautiful is right - only seven months, and then you get your whole lives together.
it'll be okay. you both will be in my prayers.
You couldn't be suicidal if your life depended on it.
there i go again, pretending that i'll fall
don't call the doctors!
they've seen it all before
they'll say just let her crash and burn
she'll learn
the attention just encourages her.
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there i go again, pretending that i'll fall
don't call the doctors!
they've seen it all before
they'll say just let her crash and burn
she'll learn
the attention just encourages her.
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Awe thats so sad love. just try to make the best out of it. Spend a beautiful night together tonight, then maybe breakfast in bed tomorrow Yeah. Hopfully everything will be okay.
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Do you pull me up just to push me down again ~Mudvayne
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matthew knows you love him with all your heart and support him.....he'll never doubt that. I've avoided posting in this topic because i'd rather not think about my brother going to Iraq.....but things will be ok, they just have to be. I love you both and I want him to come home safely........I agree with the idea about the letter.....and crying is not a bad thing........
TJ[10:13 PM]: no not really..... it's all so.... like wow..... screw steps, you took a fuckin jet pack and strapped it on yourself and rocketed your way forward (thats my big bro)
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- Kit
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He's gone... *sigh* I guess I can say that there's one good thing about this...
I get the cell phone! mwahaha.
Thanks for your support ya'all. The night went fairly well. I made him dinner and we stayed up all night and watched our wedding video over and over and then the videos from when we were young. That was...interesting. lol. But I guess...I made it. The hard part is over. Now it's just waiting for him to come home...
I get the cell phone! mwahaha.
Thanks for your support ya'all. The night went fairly well. I made him dinner and we stayed up all night and watched our wedding video over and over and then the videos from when we were young. That was...interesting. lol. But I guess...I made it. The hard part is over. Now it's just waiting for him to come home...
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I hope your doing okay.
Why give up, why give in?
It's not enough, it never is.
So I will go on until the end.
We've become desolate.
It's not enough, it never is.
But I will go on until the end.
I've lost my way.
I've lost my way, but I will go on until the end.
Living is hard enough
Without you fucking up.
Until The End - Breaking Benjamin
It's not enough, it never is.
So I will go on until the end.
We've become desolate.
It's not enough, it never is.
But I will go on until the end.
I've lost my way.
I've lost my way, but I will go on until the end.
Living is hard enough
Without you fucking up.
Until The End - Breaking Benjamin