well me and my bf broke up a couple weeks ago. ..
friday night i went to a lil party at a friends house and this guy that ive known for 4 years took me outside and we talked. . (ive liked him since i met him) and he told me that he lked me to and everything. .well later that night we cuddled on the couch and watched movies then we went 2 his room and things went a little to far and he told me that he thinks we should definatly date and fell asleep. .the next morning he didnt really talk 2 me and he still hasnt really talked 2 me since and i dunno wat to do. . he told me that he wasnt gunna be like all the other guys and everything. . (i dont just randomly sleep with ppl he is only the 3rd guy ive been with) and im kinda scared he was saying it 2 get into my pants. .cuz he had said sumthing lke that like a month ago when i was over there hanging out and i didnt think nothing of it and i dont kno wat d oyou guys think?
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Re: confused
Have you called and questioned him about this behavior? If not, please consider it. Most things just need to be talked out.
Good luck, sweetie.
Good luck, sweetie.
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Brittni: -rips pants off of me-
Me: HEY! I was wearing those!
Brittni: My pants...I therefore have the right to revoke your right of wearing them. I just acted upon my right, and flattened your right...
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Brittni: -rips pants off of me-
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Re: confused
yea i finally talked 2 him and well.. it didnt go good. . even tho he said he thinks we should date
he told me today that we're just gunna be friends. . .im pretty hurt because sumone i use 2 like alot did the same thing and when he found out he was extremly pist and then he goes and does it himself. . its like wtf
he told me today that we're just gunna be friends. . .im pretty hurt because sumone i use 2 like alot did the same thing and when he found out he was extremly pist and then he goes and does it himself. . its like wtf
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Re: confused
It seems to me that he used that line solely to get into your pants. Confront him about this bit of information; because what he did is WRONG.
For my College 101 class, I had to read an article about the differences between seduction and rape. The differences are so slim that the two blur together. Him telling you that you two should date is SEDUCTION and in some states that is RAPE.
For my College 101 class, I had to read an article about the differences between seduction and rape. The differences are so slim that the two blur together. Him telling you that you two should date is SEDUCTION and in some states that is RAPE.
"Excuse me while I go and have a 'geek-gasm' "- random guy at Comic-Con '07
Brittni: -rips pants off of me-
Me: HEY! I was wearing those!
Brittni: My pants...I therefore have the right to revoke your right of wearing them. I just acted upon my right, and flattened your right...
Me: Yeah...You're right.
Brittni: -rips pants off of me-
Me: HEY! I was wearing those!
Brittni: My pants...I therefore have the right to revoke your right of wearing them. I just acted upon my right, and flattened your right...
Me: Yeah...You're right.
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Re: confused
well we talked bout it and he said that he regrets it because
right now i have lost all my trust in hi and he said that if he could he would go back and prevent it from happening because he would rather have my friendship then a f*** buddy. . we are slowly starting 2 be okay but i told him i dont trust him at all anymore and i dunno. . .ii still really like him but he says he just doesnt see us like that. . .
right now i have lost all my trust in hi and he said that if he could he would go back and prevent it from happening because he would rather have my friendship then a f*** buddy. . we are slowly starting 2 be okay but i told him i dont trust him at all anymore and i dunno. . .ii still really like him but he says he just doesnt see us like that. . .
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Re: confused
Ouch, what a prick.
See, guys piss me off in general, and guys like this are why.
See, guys piss me off in general, and guys like this are why.
"Excuse me while I go and have a 'geek-gasm' "- random guy at Comic-Con '07
Brittni: -rips pants off of me-
Me: HEY! I was wearing those!
Brittni: My pants...I therefore have the right to revoke your right of wearing them. I just acted upon my right, and flattened your right...
Me: Yeah...You're right.
Brittni: -rips pants off of me-
Me: HEY! I was wearing those!
Brittni: My pants...I therefore have the right to revoke your right of wearing them. I just acted upon my right, and flattened your right...
Me: Yeah...You're right.
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Re: confused
what a fucking asshole.
sorry. but I couldn't change the page without saying that.
sorry. but I couldn't change the page without saying that.
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