Hi again everybody. I've been with Nicole for just over a year now, and she's been living with me since the end of March.
We watched Dear John last night, and I got pretty emotional toward the end, having drawn parallels between my life and the movie. I told Nicole this, and am now regretting it.
The parallel that I drew went something like this: Myself in the position of Savannah, my ex who was killed when we were both passengers in a bad car accident was John, and Nicole was Tim. Nicole didn't understand what I meant last night when I said it, but today I can tell she does. Based on things that she said today and on how she's acting today, I believe she thinks we'd be better off apart. Maybe she's right... maybe it was the condom wrapper on the floor that we found and my initial lack of explanation that did it, or later my true but weird sounding explanation...
Another Emergency
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Re: Another Emergency
Think about this for a second, would your life be better or worse if you broke up with Nicole? You need to think about whats best for you, not just for her. If you want her, you'll fight for her. But, remember, if your ex died in a car crash, you might not have come fully to terms with that, so don't throw your chances with Nicole away if you aren't absolutely sure you don't love her or want her.