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Seeing as I'm not going to be able to be with someone, is it possible to live a happy life without love? Could I try to be happy being a virgin and single the rest of my life?
(Want to know something funny too, one day I woke up feeling ten times better with myself. For two weeks I began loving myself and working hard, I had been depressed for a while and it was refreshing to feel confident and happy. I thought everything I was gonna work out for me and I could really do this. Then I found out I had oral herpes, I was never meant to love myself or be confident. If there's a God or force in the world then I got the message.)
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Anyway, you can ALWAYS be happy and confident, just as long as YOU love YOURSELF. It's fine to act, but make sure to notify your director of your condition ahead of time so that changes to the script can be made/body doubles can be hired/etc. And even if that doesn't work out, you can fnd another purpose! How about working with a herpes awareness group, to inspire people who have it, or a foundation to donate money towards a cure?
Also, if someone really loves you, they won't care what happens to them. They'll do anything to be with you. And if you absolutely refuse to accept the possibility of infecting them, then you may want to consider finding very close friends and trying to get closer to YOURSELF. Once you do, you may realize that to be happy in life, you're fine just being on your own. My logic? If people absolutely couldn't handle being without a mate, we'd all be born attached to one.
And what if they collided in the city streets
Held hands together and all looked up into the sky now?
PON PON Let it out, come on let the crazy show!
Because if you don't, life would be so dull you know?
<3PON PON PON <3
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