some body please help me
me and my best friend like the same girl and he just gave her this necklass and now he thinks that she likes him but i know who she likes and its not him and she doesnt want me to tell him and he is all hyper bout it.
p.s. can any 1 help me think of what i should get her?!?
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fire~fly
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does your friends know that you like her as well? if not i wouldn;t go and give her something as well cos your friendship is important and it might really hurt him. as for telling him the girlie doens't like him its difficult ive been in that position before and there is nothing easy you can do cos whatever happens he is gunna be upset that she doesn't like him. i don;t think the girl really has any right to decide whether you tell him she doesn't like him, i would have thought that she wouldn;t want him to be under false pretences about a relationship between them and also wouldn't an thim to think she was leading him on.
how you tell him is difficult, its harder if he knows that you lke her cos he might thik that you are just trying to put him off so you can go after her, it would be best if you could get her to let him down gently, or you could just tell him yourself - don;t be too blunt tho cos he's bound to feel hurt by it but it might be better than letting him find out for himself and then feeling stupid and thinking that everyone was laughing at him cos they all knew that he didn;t like him.
how you tell him is difficult, its harder if he knows that you lke her cos he might thik that you are just trying to put him off so you can go after her, it would be best if you could get her to let him down gently, or you could just tell him yourself - don;t be too blunt tho cos he's bound to feel hurt by it but it might be better than letting him find out for himself and then feeling stupid and thinking that everyone was laughing at him cos they all knew that he didn;t like him.
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Emily
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He's your best friend and you're going to let him get hurt by a girl?
If I was you I would tell him that she doesn't like him.. It's not fair to let him get his heart broken if you could provent it in some way.
If I was you I would tell him that she doesn't like him.. It's not fair to let him get his heart broken if you could provent it in some way.
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pokl
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yes she does know that i like him and the big problem is that they are both relly good friends of mine and i dont want hurt either of them
(y did i ask who she liked!)
(y did i ask who she liked!)
i had an idea it would save world hunger nobody world every have to be homeless and it would bring world peace
then forgot what it was
then forgot what it was
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pokl
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ok people i dont think im goin 2 tell him am i just a complete idiot or am i doin somthin good because they r both relly good friends and i dont want 2 lose eihher of them so some body please help!!!
i had an idea it would save world hunger nobody world every have to be homeless and it would bring world peace
then forgot what it was
then forgot what it was
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Crazy Bird
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I wouldn't suggest telling him she doesn't like him because he might get mad and think you are interfering and only saying it because you like her aswell. So yeah - don't go down that road.
I think you and your mate should talk to this girl..and ask her who the fuck she likes once and for all.
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I think you and your mate should talk to this girl..and ask her who the fuck she likes once and for all.
~ Keli xxx
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Now here you go again, you say you want your freedom
Well who am I to keep you down
It's only right that you should play the way you feel it
But listen carefully to the sound
Of your loneliness
Like a heartbeat drives you mad
In the stillness of remembering what you had
And what you lost
Well It's only me that wants to wrap around your dreams
I love you...
Now here you go again, you say you want your freedom
Well who am I to keep you down
It's only right that you should play the way you feel it
But listen carefully to the sound
Of your loneliness
Like a heartbeat drives you mad
In the stillness of remembering what you had
And what you lost
Well It's only me that wants to wrap around your dreams
I love you...