Stupid Idiotic Problem

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Stupid Idiotic Problem

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ok well u see my ex best friend went out withthis guy trevor for like 1 1/2 months right, and well after they broke up me and trevor really started liking each other...alotl.....but we can't do anything because of sofia, i wouldn't mind because i'm not friends with her but i'm friends with her friedns and shes like the mafia and wiill turn them against me...sigh
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yea. i realized in the past few months that you definitely don't want to lose friends for a guy. trust me. it hurts. a lot. and the guy will most likely be gone eventually, then where are you left? if you want to do anything, probably talk to your friends first, and be careful, because friendships can be more delicate than u realize. :-/
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thing is we aren't freinds...me and sofia aren't we can never be friends and i'm glad about that...and also i'm not really friends with her friends much anyways

i just feel bad u know....lol also he was a really close friend of mine before all this liking thing happened
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Talk to Sofia about it, even though you aren't close? Or talk to her friends, if you hate her. Or just go for it.



How long ago was it that they dated?
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lol that name makes me cringe, i don't talk or try to look at her, i'm sorta pissed at the friends....long story, they dated very very serioulsy...fo who knows how long lol...but she dumped him because she was boredl....she said she still loved him and would hook up with him but whatever
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Bah, I say go for it. Not your problem. :P
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