Getting Bored

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Getting Bored

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Ok, my and my girl have been going out for a month. And at first everything was great, we was calling me everyday and always wanting to go places with me. Well, lately I get these feelings like shes just saying these things just to make me happy and sometimes it seems like she doesnt care. And sometimes I just worry that Im making her bored, cause all we do(can do) is go to the movies and then to a small restaurant close by. Shes mentioned me coming over sometime, and stuff. And shes always telling me how much she loves me and how much she misses me. All Im wondering is, should I worry? And what could I do to stop the worrying and "liven" things up?
"Others who broke my heart. They were like northern stars, pointing me on my way into your loving arms. This much I know is true, that God blessed the broken road that led me straight to you."

Lying close to you feelin' your heart beatin. And Im wonderin' what you're dreamin. Wonderin' if its me your seeing. Then I kiss your eyes and thank God we're together. I just wanna stay with you in this moment forever!



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Try talking .. instead of a movie how about a long dinner or go to one of your houses to really get to know each other so you are both intrigued... and want to know more . Or, to make things more fun, get tickets to a concert of a person or band she really likes and suprise her with them... little things.. sweet gestures will make her realize why she went out with you in the first place.
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Well, the thing is Im 15 and shes 13...so we are pretty limited. Plus, the city we live in is pretty limited also. And Ill be 16 in February. And we are both very interested in each other, but I think this is mostly my problem. I always worry if she really likes doing things with me and shes not just doing it to make me happy and all that.
"Others who broke my heart. They were like northern stars, pointing me on my way into your loving arms. This much I know is true, that God blessed the broken road that led me straight to you."

Lying close to you feelin' your heart beatin. And Im wonderin' what you're dreamin. Wonderin' if its me your seeing. Then I kiss your eyes and thank God we're together. I just wanna stay with you in this moment forever!



"Take time with a wounded hand cause it likes to heal"

-Nirvana
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Re: Getting Bored

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Ohh.. hmm... tricky tricky lol

Well, the only thing now to try to solve this is to talk to HER... and tell her how much you care about her and you just want to know if she feels the same way or if something is wrong... try it.. if this is bothering you this much then talk to her. Good Luck!
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Re: Getting Bored

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I'll try.....thanks all
"Others who broke my heart. They were like northern stars, pointing me on my way into your loving arms. This much I know is true, that God blessed the broken road that led me straight to you."

Lying close to you feelin' your heart beatin. And Im wonderin' what you're dreamin. Wonderin' if its me your seeing. Then I kiss your eyes and thank God we're together. I just wanna stay with you in this moment forever!



"Take time with a wounded hand cause it likes to heal"

-Nirvana
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