She Doesn't Notice Me...

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She Doesn't Notice Me...

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My mom is one of those moms who cares more about her laptop than her own daughter. She used to be my best friend, I could talk to her all the time anytime about anything. Then she got a laptop, and it was like it was her new child. When I try to talk to her, she listens, but only for one or two minutes and then by then I either already got the point that she's not listening by myself or she just says something like "Yea yea yea..." to make sure I get the point and then I just leave. The worst part is, her laptop obsession has nothing to do with work. She's just obsessed with the internet. before she got her laptop, she used to hate how I was always on the internet and she would always be reading a book. Now she's constantly on her laptop when she's at home, and she doesn't have time for anyone. It just pisses me off, I wish that for ONE day she could listen to me and hear what I'm REALLY saying.

I was talking to my dad and well...here's pretty much our convorsation"

dad: "what are you going to do with your birthday money."

me: "I'm going to buy agressive inline skates."

dad: "what are they?"

me: "Have you ever seen skateboarders do tricks? Well I'm going to learn tricks like that, only with my skates. But I can't do the tricks with regular rollerblades, so I have to get these inline skates."

dad: -laughs- "You're seriously going to try and learn to do those tricks???"

me: "Um..yea, I'm going to try, what, you don't think I can do it?"

My dad just walked away kind of sighing.

I wish he could just believe in me for once. He would never believe in me and never support me unless it was something that required absolutley no skill because he obviously doesn't think I can do anything skillful. Ugh! Whatever, I'll show that a**hole.
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Hi hunny maybe u should try to get ur moms attention show her that u really need her as a mom and ur dad ask him y he never belives in u see what he says it may just be a big missunderstanding
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You need to talk to both of your parents. Wait till your mom is alone...cooking supper, doing laundry, ect. Or even when you are in the car with her alone. And tell her that you feel that she has no time for you anymore. Just tell her all of your feelings! She needs to know how she is making you feel. She could be so caught up in this laptop that she doesn't even relize how she has changed her attitude towards you. OR if you don't think talking to her would do much good then write her a letter and leave it in her car or by or bed. And as far as your dad goes you need to catch him alone or write him a letter tellin him how it hurts you that he never believes in you! Tell him that you would really love to have his support in things. If you need to talk...PM me





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Why don't you send your mom an e-mail telling her to pay attention to you.

She'll probably read it,
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All i can say about your mom is be upfront with her and tell her everything you have told us, also ask if she can look at you while you saying this opposed to the computer screen. As for you dad you could ask him or just prove to him that you can do anything you set your mind to and prove him wrong.
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