My boyfriends dad, and his wife treat him like crap. His friends are always ditching him, and I know it's not HIM I have been around these people and they are just always horrible to him. And lately he is getting more and more unhappy being at his dad's house and I dont know what he will do. He is 17he hates being with his dad he has tried to move out and live with his mom but his dad refuses and his mom cant afford to go to court. They glare at him, order him around, and basically treat him like their servant. On top of the fact that he is 17 and has to be at home by 9 o' clock every night, when he doesnt even have to go to school the next day. (homeschool). I'm not trying to sound like a brat but i can tell he is just miserable and is always talking about how he doesnt know if he is going to last another year if he can take it or not.. And i dont know what to tell him I try to comfort him and tell him he only has a year to go. And it's not that i am sick of hearing about it, its not that at all i just dont know what to do.. what to say to him to make him feel better and hang in there you know? Any ideas?.... :'(
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- Shwynsh
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maybe he could work up some money, or have borrow some money so his mom could afford court- because its not fair for him to live like this! He does only have one more year to go- and YOU have to be his lifeline.. i'm not trying to put pressure on you or anything, because its not a very difficult job. Just be there for him basically- whenever he has free time try to make it a GOOD time.. and if its not, just make him smile or laugh..
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- SexyLittleDoll
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Your boyfriend is in a really hard situation right now and really the only thing u can do for him is try to be there for him and talk to him. Try doing whatever u can do to make him happy. I don't know why his parents are treating him like this but its not fair. He doesn't have to much time left before he can move out or go to college. If he can hang in there till then then maybe he would start to feel better. At this point though the only thing that u can do to help him would be to listen to him and be there for him. Good Luck PM me if u want to talk.. Mandy
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