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My brother is 13, and he hardly has any friends, and the ones he has treat him like . Today, they told him they were gonna play hide and seek, and while he was looking for them, they went skating with another friend. He is becoming depressed. Now these kids that ditched him might come to the house later, and he told me to tell them he's not home (he is). But I feel like stepping outside with them and saying something to them....like how they are disgusting pieces of , how they should be embarrassed to even show their faces around my home. I don't know.....I would never hit or anything I'm not a kickass kind of girl so...what should I do? Nothing, maybe?
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Before you say something to these 'friends' of your brother, you need to see how it would affect him. It could have a bad impact on him...kids are weird...they might make fun of him for something like that.
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Yeah I know that's the other thing. I don't want to embarrass him either and make him have NO friends.
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If these friends of his are so horrible to him, he would probably be better off not having any. But the embarassment thing is a big issue. How would he feel if you said something to them?



Or you could try to help him find different friends so he could ditch the ones he has now.
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I wouldn't do that. He wouldn't be happy with you. BUT - I think you should just talk to your brother. Tell him that there are so much better people out there and that he can find people who will make him feel GOOD not make him depressed. What kind of friends is that? Tell him at this point he'd probably be happier with no friends for the time being than these crappy friends...



Just urge him to move away from this crowd, they're taking advantage of him by using him to just laugh at. That's horrible.
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