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My parents came home today...I could tell each had been drinking. They were both in not so good moods. I took a nap and my parents went out to eat with the other half of the family. They came back in even worse moods. My mom went to sleep and my dad and I started arguing. I really don't remember how it went, but all I know is that he brought up divorcing my mom, they have been together about 17 years, and he just kept threatening divorce. He was saying "We should have done this earlier." He normally says stuff to make other people mad, especially since he was drinking, but I don't know what to do, if I can do anything at all. I have really no one to talk to about this, I just don't know what to do. I can't even describe what might happen if they did divorce, I know everything would be gone. Nothing would ever be the same. My dad has been married once before this time and saw his kids when they were young but rarely sees them now, and I don't want it that way, I really hate this position. Someone please help me with some advice.

I would appreciate it soo much. :'( <tag closure help
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aww hun its okay.

maybe you should wait until they sober up some then talk to the both of them about it?? maybe they can get counseling to help them if they need it. or maybe your dad was just so drunk he didnt know what he was saying?

divorce does change alot of things. and it sucks yes. but sometimes it can be for the best.

really all you can do is talk to them and tell them how much you care about the both of them and want them to stay together. if you need someone to talk to you can pm me anytime at all.
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u know what? u shoudl tell someone. i would give them one more chance. if they come home drunk 1 more time i would call the cops. it sounds dumb but there ur PARENTS there supposed to watch after u not come home drunk. and about ur dad. he was drunk he has no dea what he was talking about
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